Re: girls oon boy's sports teams in HS: wrestling, football..what say
Can we drift back to my original topic.
It's November..and HS wrestling rosters are forming. some teams have girls on them, ready to wrestle guys.. What do you think of this?
On one hand, good for the girls being able to compete and
earn a spot on the team.
But on the other hand, it does create kind of a lose-lose-lose for any guy she wrestles.
He may see the girl as a girl and not go as hard as he would against a guy, either from some notion of "not picking on girls" or just being afraid/ apprehensive to touch a girl in the "wrong" spot, lest he get accused of something inappropriate.
If he wins, he gets told he should have beaten a girl and receives little to no glory from it.
If he loses, then he carries the stigma of "getting beat by a girl" around.
From the girl's point of view, if she competes and wins or at least is competitive in matches, her sexuality can be called into question and she's carrying the "dyke" tag around school.
Just a couple of examples from beer league hockey - women who play well and outplay men are often referred to as dykes. One of our d-men had a great comeback to that, she said "You're just pissed we don't let you watch". (the goalie was and still is her partner)
If a guy gets schooled by a girl, he hears about it.
In an ideal world, it shouldn't matter. HS is less than an ideal world.