I’m 55 years old. I saw the original Ghostbusters during its theatrical run. I saw it on TV once or twice years ago, then recently watched it on DVD. It’s not the timeless classic everyone says it is. It’s good, but it’s got a lot of problems. The female reboot? I enjoyed it. It didn’t feel like something from 30+ years ago that I had to make a lot of allowances for. In a few years, I think any reasonably objective viewer will find the reboot a pretty good follow-up to a pretty good original.
And Burnham’s a great character, Discovery is pretty good, fandom has always been toxic (dig up a copy of Harlan Ellison’s article Xenogenesis or just mention Ellison’s name and watch the fireworks), and sometimes bigoted assholes really are bigoted assholes.