I don't care for either one but the idea that human looking aliens is passe is laughable to me. We have whole shows work with that concept and it is baked in to Star Trek as a world. Even if one ignores TOS as Roddenberry wanted to with TNG you still have several human looking aliens going forward from TNG.I like El-Aurians. Betazoids are meh to me
I don't mind more alien looking aliens but human looking aliens are just as acceptable to me in Star Trek.