Fair Haven is a terrible episode. I've noticed in various internet reviews that there's a recurring theme that the entire "dilemma" surrounding Janeway and use of the holodeck is ridiculous. Given the 24th century's supposedly liberal attitudes on sex and sexuality and what we've seen on DS9 of holosuite use, why is it even an issue that Janeway would want to have sex with a hologram? Are we supposed to believe that it's an issue because she's a captain or because she's a female captain? Either way it's a stupid idea for the episode.