Which we know is a load of crap since Spock’s statement of unremitting hostilities with the Klingons for 70 years in TUC means the Federation has had interactions with Klingons going back to the 2220s – 30 years before Disco.Discovery has confirmed that the Fed had zip to do with the Klingons between Enterprise and Disco's Klingon War.
And considering Burnham was taking about firing phase cannons – ENT-era tech – when they had phasers, and the crew botched their mission to capture T’Kuvma, maybe that crew wasn’t all that bright.
You still have not explained what you mean.That’s a lot of writing just to confirm that a Romulan War show or film will not be like how anyone has envisioned it in their minds for the last 50 years.
Your argument sound like you are saying it won’t play out to headcanon of viewers, which wildly differ from person to person. That’s assuming the viewers that watch have a headcanon of the Romulan War in the first place. You are discounting the new viewer experience.
As for the fandom, Federation-Klingons wars have played out as expected on DIS and DS9. And did these viewers need every gritty detail to understand the Occupation was bad for Bajorans?
I have no idea as to why you think that any visual depiction of the Romulan War would not meet expectations.