YMMV on which shows are preferable. For me, it more about Tiers and less about ordinal rankings.
Tier 1: TOS, TNG, DS9
Tier 2: VOY, ENT
Tier 3: TAS
I don't hate any Trek shows. I like them all to varying degrees. Though some are more frustrating than others.
None of the NuTrek shows are finished yet, so hard to rate them. But I certainly cannot go higher than Tier 2 on PIC or Disco.
Even my top tier shows have gaping flaws. Everyone outside of Kirk/Spock/McCoy is an extra on TOS. They tried early in with Uhura & Rand but it went nowhere. Crosby left TNG because they flat out told her her chatacter she was eye candy.
And even the most frustrating (VOY, ENT, DISCO, PIC) have had really great episodes and moments.
I was very disappointed with Enterprise as it was airing. The decon chamber, the Vulcan pressure rubs, and getting Jolene to improbably bend over a lot were just a bit too much for me. And I have never been a big fan of the Time Travel stuff.
Having said that, on rewatch it fared better with me. I knew what was coming on Decon & stuff, and just accepted it and moved on. I thought Enterprise did a great job with Vulcan and Andorian culture. The choice to have a more antagonistic Vulcans and more likable Andorian character (Schran) was inspired. Though S3-S4 are the better of it's seasons, Carbon Creek is still my favorite episode. It was improving, a lot. My biggest gripe is that the finale is told through the eyes of Riker & Troi, and not letting the cast & crew take a proper bow. I like the theme song, even.
As for DISCO, I am firmly in the camp that thinks SMG deserves a ton of credit for (quite intentionally) fostering a welcoming atmosphere for/with the other actors, resulting in the best cast comaraderie since TNG.
I think a lot of criticism that nuTrek gets is boneheaded. I mean, of course Disco looks more modern than TOS, it's 2023 not 1965. Women won't be in mini-skirts. Computers don't use floppy discs or memory tapes. We can 3D print right now and can do virtual reality. If, as a fan, you don't get why that is the case, then no amount of civil discourse is gonna fix it. What we thought was futuristic in 1965 is already outdated in 2023. People on futuristic ships cannot be using LESS modern stuff than we have.
And I fear a some of the DISCO/nuTrek hate comes from the RWNJ war on wokeness that objects more to the color/gender of the main character, having gay/LGBTQ+ characters portrayed in positive ways, or dislike shots at wanton cruelty & authoritarianism, putting kids in cages, & the like. I mistrust a lot of audience reviews sites because if this.
That is not to say there are not legit criticisms. I will just flatly state that I tend to like episodic better than serial. The ending is much more impactful in serial, and DISCO really only went 1/4 in sticking it.
I think the pendulum swung WAY too far into character emotions at critical times. Let's explore the emotions, fine, but not when we have 10 seconds to warp the ship to safety. Yes?
Nor am I a huge fan of the loose language. The swearing (I like the Voyage Home treatment), the use of modern slang, or too familial interactions on the bridge (on Starfleet ships).
The second half of S2 and the Burn reveal were the low points for me. Pre Mirror U S1, pre Control S2, and S4 ending the highs for me. YMMV, of course. And all this stuff.
If I had to rate NuTrek (so far):
Tier 1: SNW, LD, PRO
Tier 2: DISCO, PIC
I have more trouble comparing old to new.