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First let me say that I'm a late-comer to this thread and haven't read all of it (it's too damn long and time's a-wasting). I did seem to notice that there is an ongoing debate about some posters who derive satisfaction from watching a show they do not like and posting about their dislikes on a continuous basis. Well, I just thought I'd add my two-cents' worth of opinion to this. I respect the work that the mods are putting into making this a kinder and gentler forum, but they are sorely underestimating the amount of irritation that some posters are generating. Their posts are repetitive, unoriginal, boring and otherwise pollute the actual discussion between those who genuinely liked the show and those who quite as genuinely didn't. We all know what these posters will write before they hit the reply button. They will hang their arguments on the weakest excuses because they decided (before the first episode was aired it seems in some cases) that they were not going to enjoy ENT. At some point, the total amount of unabated and unabatable negativity they generate should be equivalent to trolling. I look forward to intelligent criticism about the show (and I agree wholeheartedly that there remains much room for improvement), but "criticism" from people who never bought into its premise and whose only wish is for the show to die a quick and nasty death is just not acceptable since there can be no debate and all they foster is resentment from those who genuinely wish ENT to improve and fit better within their personal conception of Star Trek.

To quote Abraham Lincoln, "Criticism is the mother of improvement, but one-trick dogs are sons of bitches."
 
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Posted by Borgminister:
Glad you agree that devotedly tuning into a show you hate for years on end and then "critically" analyzing each and every episode might be a bit strange. I'm sure you wouldn't watch a show you hate, nor would any reasonable person, after a certain point.

No, I would not personally watch a show I hate, but nor would I find fault with those who do. I'm here to talk about Enterprise, not the other people who come here to talk about it.

And I'm not judging anyone, nor obsessing--you started this mediation thread, remember? I am participating, albeit briefly, and adding my two cents. Like I said, I skip over posts that are fringe, one-dimensional expressions of hatred, because I happen to like the show, warts and all.

And I would agree with you there--it's easy to skip over the posts from people you find are just posting about their hatred for the show. Note that I did say that I didn't mean you alone or personally when I said that, but there is a focus on that in the forum, and I think that's one of the things that is most harmful to the forum atmosphere. Here is the place to discuss it, this mediation thread, and I'm very grateful for your participation and imput, just like I am everyone else's.

I will continue to read posts that alternate praise with critisism, because they reflect a greater balance, or at least SOME balance. And no, I've never graded an episode A+++, but by the same token, I've never given out an F--- either. I think the truth often lies somewhere in betweeen, not at either end of the spectrum.

I agree that the truth would lie in between the A++++ and the F----, but sometimes people react so strongly to an episode either way that that is the way they express it. We don't have many at either end though--most people do fall somewhere in between.

Anyway, that's it for my obsessive and judgemental involvement in this thread that you created for this express purpose, unless anything new is brought to the table.

;) :D

This thread was created so that we could talk out the problems in the forum. I'm not calling you or your participation "obsessive" or "judgmental;" I'm just trying to point out problems on both sides that can be improved, so that we can make this forum a nicer place to post.

Posted by Galactus:
I think the issue with is that some people don't think there is anything wrong with a person watching a show they hate and then posting on this forum about it. That is what drives me crazy. That is the kind of behavior that have earned us "Trekkies" the reputation we have now. No matter if we think the show is bad or not we will still religiously watch it. I am sorry there is something wrong with that.

Even if you hold that view, can you see how it might not be condusive to a good discussion? Can you see how someone might feel offended by being told there is something "wrong" with their viewing habits.

The thing I keep repeating over and over again (that no one seems to be responding to :( ) is that you can't control others. You can't make someone stop watching Enterprise because they don't like it. And the people who don't like the show can't stop those that adore it from giving every episode an A or an A++++.

The thing that brings us together here is that we all enjoy discussing Enterprise. Some don't enjoy the show, some do, but we all like discussing it. Certainly that's common ground?
 
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Posted by Top41:
What I don't get, much more than the idea of people watching a show they hate, is others constantly taking them to task for it. I'm going to turn it around for a minute: why do you guys care so much about what someone else does in his/her free time? Why do you feel the need to know a critic's reason for watching the show?

Call it morbid curiosity. As I said, the behavior is unusual enough to be more interesting than the criticism.
 
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Posted by NX-01 Plumber:
First let me say that I'm a late-comer to this thread and haven't read all of it (it's too damn long and time's a-wasting). I did seem to notice that there is an ongoing debate about some posters who derive satisfaction from watching a show they do not like and posting about their dislikes on a continuous basis. Well, I just thought I'd add my two-cents' worth of opinion to this. I respect the work that the mods are putting into making this a kinder and gentler forum, but they are sorely underestimating the amount of irritation that some posters are generating. Their posts are repetitive, unoriginal, boring and otherwise pollute the actual discussion between those who genuinely liked the show and those who quite as genuinely didn't. We all know what these posters will write before they hit the reply button. They will hang their arguments on the weakest excuses because they decided (before the first episode was aired it seems in some cases) that they were not going to enjoy ENT. At some point, the total amount of unabated and unabatable negativity they generate should be equivalent to trolling. I look forward to intelligent criticism about the show (and I agree wholeheartedly that there remains much room for improvement), but "criticism" from people who never bought into its premise and whose only wish is for the show to die a quick and nasty death is just not acceptable since there can be no debate and all they foster is resentment from those who genuinely wish ENT to improve and fit better within their personal conception of Star Trek.

To quote Abraham Lincoln, "Criticism is the mother of improvement, but one-trick dogs are sons of bitches."
As part of all this, we need to not only stop questioning others' motives and motivations for watching and/or participating, we need to stop assigning them, as well. Not one person here 'knows' that another was prejudiced against the show before even seeing it, unless that person comes right out and says so. They don't 'know' that a person's sole reason for coming here and criticizing the show is to create an uncomfortable or combative atmosphere.

Lest we forget, when there are participants here who don't think the show is all that and a bag of chips, they can be just as easily annoyed, can just as easily resent the members who unceasingly praise the show, as well; it creates no less a hostile environment to unswervingly express one's devotion without ever debating one's reasons. Saying over and over and over and over that ENT is the best Trek series yet created, or even the best television series of any kind ever, without entertaining serious debate over one's reasons, is no less pathological and no less provocative, indeed no less 'trolling,' than the actions and attitudes of the members that these same people would have silenced, and of whom they feel no compunction whatsoever in demanding rationalization for their choices. Those who have made almost a religion of praising ENT are no less repetitive, no less boring, no less unoriginal and no less polluting of actual discussion, yet because they are "good fans" who enjoy the same show as the other "good fans," they are granted significantly more leeway and understanding, even support. "Bilbo of The Shire has every right to be here because he always gives the episodes an A+; he's obviously a fan, and you're not because you have yet to give it anything but an F. Sure, Bilbo limits his discussion to "So good I almost peed myself," every time whereas you make points about where the episode had plot holes and how bad the acting was and give 'advice' on how it could have been done better, but at least he enjoyed it, and you don't and never will."

Just because you're a positive fan doesn't mean you have all the answers, and it certainly doesn't mean that you aren't just as irritating as the people you denounce. If the critics are expected to keep their opinions about their fellow members quiet, however, and the zealots can do the same, then no one has a right to expect anyone else to leave simply because of the choices he's made or because he exercised his right to express his opinions. One-liners from either end of the spectrum, especially when they are the same one-liners, are where I think the bulk of the ill will is generated; they usually contain nothing substantive and are often intended, and pretty obviously, to dismiss someone else outright without 'breaking the rules', and the 'positive' fans have just as many guilty parties as the critics.

If you don't agree with someone's ongoing criticism of the show, do something positive about it. Don't expect them to justify their choices unless you are prepared to justify yours, as well, because they have just as much right to ask what it is about the show that you find so well-done, so entertaining, so professional, that you would devote an hour of your time to watching it and more hours coming here to discuss it; when you ask why they dislike the show, be prepared to explain in just as much detail what it is that you find likable. Not just "Bakula's hot" or "It has great fx" or "Porthos barked" or "Because it's so much better than VOY," because every one of those reasons has a counterpart in the critics which has been dismissed outright.

Do you see how ridiculous this is? How unsupportable? How unnecessary? Discussion and debate require different viewpoints, or else it's all just group masturbation.

Posted by Dennis Bailey:
...As I said, the behavior is unusual enough to be more interesting than the criticism.
The 'behavior' is no more unusual than the constant praise and support lavished by some who never explain why they believe the show is such a well-done and entertaining classic. Watching the shows, I find it extremely unusual that some people can give A's and B's to what I see as tired, repetitive, amateurish, plotless and pointless stories that would never survive a freshman creative writing class. I find it unusual behavior that a person can post in a grading thread that they saw little of real substance or integrity in a story and yet they give it a B+; that's like me saying the steak I got at Outback was burned on one side, raw on the other and contained a large amount of gristle, but because it's Outback I'll give it 4 stars out of 5. I find it unusual behavior when some insist that the show be judged only against its own efforts and that anyone who compares it to other shows on the air currently or in the past, and find it wanting, is unfairly criticizing it. I find it extremely unusual behavior (well, sadly it's not that unusual here :() that a person with no real-world knowledge or insight about another poster feels he has the right to assume and to claim that this poster has preconceived biases and no potential whatsoever to accept any improvement in the show; talk about preconceived bias :mad:.

Frankly, I can't believe this discussion has gone on as long as it has; the simple answer is: Don't tell anybody else what to think, and don't expect anybody has to justify himself or his choices. If you don't like what they have to say, either offer a counter-argument that supports your own position, in the hopes that you might actually change their opinion, or move along; no one has the right to question the motivations of anyone else here.
 
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Well said Top41 and Ptrope, I agree with everything said by you both. :cool:
 
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Posted by Ptrope:
The 'behavior' is no more unusual than the constant praise and support lavished by some who never explain why they believe the show is such a well-done and entertaining classic.

You're mistaken. It is much more unusual.

The reason that people who like something would indulge themselves in it repeatedly and then gather to discuss it is self-evident.

To use the limited analogy of a restaurant, if people like the steak at a place and like the price one would expect them to both return regularly to the restaurant and to recommend it to their friends.

If OTOH someone has a very bad experience with a restaurant, one would reasonably expect them to avoid the place thereafter and to warn their friends away from it -- not to return week after week to order the same (overdone, underdone, tough, what-have-you) meat, be revolted by it, and then share with their friends that the place is no better this week than it was on the ten previous weeks.
 
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Posted by Dennis Bailey:
Posted by Ptrope:
The 'behavior' is no more unusual than the constant praise and support lavished by some who never explain why they believe the show is such a well-done and entertaining classic.

You're mistaken. It is much more unusual.

The reason that people who like something would indulge themselves in it repeatedly and then gather to discuss it is self-evident.

To use the limited analogy of a restaurant, if people like the steak at a place and like the price one would expect them to both return regularly to the restaurant and to recommend it to their friends.

If OTOH someone has a very bad experience with a restaurant, one would reasonably expect them to avoid the place thereafter and to warn their friends away from it -- not to return week after week to order the same (overdone, underdone, tough, what-have-you) meat, be revolted by it, and then share with their friends that the place is no better this week than it was on the ten previous weeks.

Or of you REALLY liked the food, you'd order a bucket. Wafer thin!

:lol:

But seriously, folks...

Lengthy treastises aside, as Top41 agreed, it seems strange for anyone to watch a show they hate for so long.

And Ptrope, if the sun goes supernova one day, I'll then assume with my dying breath it won't rise again the next morning. Until that time... ;)
 
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Ok let me come at it a different way. You can not tell anyone what or how to think is what seems to be the justification for saying that it is ok to post in this forum when you hate the show. Ok if you truly believe that then why are warnings issued to any posters. If we do not like what they post, all we need to do is simlpy ignore what they say. They are simply expressing an opinion. Doesn't matter what their intentions are.

In another thread Partking was offended when taylor said people should take off their sheet implying that they were racists. I brought up the point that I am as equally offended when people say people are trying to be "PC" because it is a catch phrase just like "quotas" when race discussion come up. He did not agree with me so we have a different opinions about this matter.

It is issues like this that come up that take any and all fun out of the forum. You can't have a meaningful discussion with people who hate the topic you are talking about. It is like trying to have a meaningful conversation with a racist or one between pro-life and pro-choice people.

I think there is a reason most of the sites I have been to, do not allow discussions from posters that hate the topic on hand. It would be like going to a Linkin Park concert and a group of people walking in and screaming we don't like Linkin Park, we like the Beetles, Stones, and Aerosmith and we want to hear them. Get Linkin Park off the stage.

I know plenty of people would be ok with that behavior, and that is the whole problem. You said you wanted to know how to make the forum better well serval people have said what would make it better. Instead of this being a forum to discuss Enterprise, a show that a believe most people in this forum like on some level, it is a forum that allows certain people to degrade the show, drowning out those people that like the show. Unless this policy is changed, nothing is every gonna change about this forum, and nothing has changed, it is always a different week but the same story.
 
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Posted by Borgminister:
But seriously, folks...

Lengthy treastises aside, as Top41 agreed, it seems strange for anyone to watch a show they hate for so long.

And Ptrope, if the sun goes supernova one day, I'll then assume with my dying breath it won't rise again the next morning. Until that time... ;)
^^

May we have some context on that, Borgminister? What does an event on a physical level have in common with a person's motives or tastes? Unless you're saying you know why the sun decided to go supernova, nothing at all.

I'm trying to get to the heart of this entire stupid argument: you people don't know that these people hate the show!!! Surely that isn't an indecipherable concept! They have just as much right to watch it and comment on it, no matter how well or poorly they believe it is done, as you do, with no exceptions. If you think their choice is unusual, why can't you just allow that they believe your choice to praise the show is equally unusual; just because you like the show doesn't mean it's a good show, in exactly the same way that their disliking it doesn't mean it is a bad show. You see something in it that they don't, but that doesn't mean that they don't see anything in it worth their attention, and it's awfully damned arrogant to think that only your appraisal of the show is the worthwhile one, or that only those who praise the show should be allowed to discuss it.

Has it occurred to any of the basher-bashers that perhaps the reason these people watch a show that you claim they hate is because they really enjoy this forum, and it is that that keeps them watching the show so that they can participate here? Maybe ENT isn't their major; maybe it's only their homework.

I'm not arguing whether someone's choice to watch a show they hate is unusual. I'm seriously fed up, however, with people insisting that they know what other people think and feel. It seems that no matter how many times it is said that this is unacceptable, the same people come back and push the damn point again. And again. AND AGAIN!!! Exactly the same behavior, to the letter, that they claim others exhibit and which makes their experience here so frustrating and unhappy; well, look in the mirror, folks, because you have met the enemy and he is you. You are contributing equally to the negative vibe around here, and all because you won't do one simple thing: stop questioning other people's motives. If that's too hard, or a stretch for you to accomplish, then I hold no sympathy whatsoever for you. Start your own board, or go to one where only praise is allowed (brannonbraga.com, for example); while you're questioning why people would stick to something that they find annoying and frustrating for two solid years, ask yourselves why you remain here when the boards that behave exactly to your liking are just as easily accessible as the TrekBBS. God knows why anyone would hang out on a BBS they hate, week after week, complaining about it constantly; man, that behavior is just plain unusual, but, hey, maybe we can just ask them why they do it, over and over and f***ing over!! (Because everyone knows that if you can't accept the answer, ask the question again until you get the one you want, right?) Maybe we can just insist that they go to another BBS and leave those of us who like having intelligent debate to our own crowd.

Is anyone noticing what is going on here? Or is it only important when we get to hear what we want to hear?

This place would just be a hell of a lot more fun, a lot friendlier, if people would get the concept that we're here to tell each other what we think, not to tell each other what to think.
 
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Posted by Ptrope:
This place would just be a hell of a lot more fun, a lot friendlier, if people would get the concept that we're here to tell each other what we think, not to tell each other what to think.

I have enough fun here to make it worth my while.

I don't care whether people stay or go, and I don't "question the motives" of people in the apparently meant sense of "casting aspersions on the motives of people". I simply find the behavior we're discussing fairly puzzling -- more than a couple of the folks who hang here have said in so many words that they do hate the show and want it to fail, so addressing that's hardly speculation.

I understand that much the same went on in the "Voyager" forum during the period that it was the only Trek series on the air, but I only know that from being told -- I wasn't enjoying Trek in those days, so I wasn't watching it or discussing it on message boards.
 
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Ptrope-

"I'm trying to get to the heart of this entire stupid argument: you people don't know that these people hate the show!!!"

:rolleyes:

Sure.

Hey Ptrope--ever check out certain avatars? ;)

Sure, there's a chance certain someones will come to enjoy Enterprise--just as much as a pig flying, though...

Although I think the latter is far more likely to happen than the former... :lol:

Oh and by the way, I'm not questioning motives, simply stating facts. You believe constant negativity is a productive thing, while I believe there must be balance.

From some, there will never be that balance, and so I simply avoid or ignore their postings entirely. After all, foregone conclusions are not interesting to me.

You seem to be coming back time and again to defend what I'm not attacking. I like the show. I like reading critiques of the show, but from those who can appreciate it on a certain level. Jammer, Reno, you, among others.

That's just me, okay?
 
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Oh and by the way, I'm not questioning motives, simply stating facts. You believe constant negativity is a productive thing, while I believe there must be balance.
There is balance. You have a few who generally hate the show, you have some who generally love the show, and you have a large number who fall somewhere in between. That sounds balanced to me. :)
 
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Posted by NAHTMMM:
Oh and by the way, I'm not questioning motives, simply stating facts. You believe constant negativity is a productive thing, while I believe there must be balance.
There is balance. You have a few who generally hate the show, you have some who generally love the show, and you have a large number who fall somewhere in between. That sounds balanced to me. :)

No no: ALWAYS hate the show, that's the point. Of course it is annoying if someone ALWAYS loves the show even when a stinker rears its ugly head. But even Spock's Brain was remembered with fondness despite its having reeked horribly.

But I get your meaning, generally speaking, that is... ;)
 
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Posted by Borgminister:From some, there will never be that balance, and so I simply avoid or ignore their postings entirely. After all, foregone conclusions are not interesting to me.

If more people adoped this method, then perhaps the problems of this forum would be solved.
 
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Posted by Ptrope:

As part of all this, we need to not only stop questioning others' motives and motivations for watching and/or participating, we need to stop assigning them, as well. Not one person here 'knows' that another was prejudiced against the show before even seeing it, unless that person comes right out and says so. They don't 'know' that a person's sole reason for coming here and criticizing the show is to create an uncomfortable or combative atmosphere.

Unfortunately, I think we do know this, from some posters' own statements. To give those posters the benefit of the doubt is either incredibly naive or hypocritical. Again, as I wrote in my initial post, this does not concern intelligent critique.

Lest we forget, when there are participants here who don't think the show is all that and a bag of chips, they can be just as easily annoyed, can just as easily resent the members who unceasingly praise the show, as well; it creates no less a hostile environment to unswervingly express one's devotion without ever debating one's reasons. Saying over and over and over and over that ENT is the best Trek series yet created, or even the best television series of any kind ever, without entertaining serious debate over one's reasons, is no less pathological and no less provocative, indeed no less 'trolling,' than the actions and attitudes of the members that these same people would have silenced, and of whom they feel no compunction whatsoever in demanding rationalization for their choices. Those who have made almost a religion of praising ENT are no less repetitive, no less boring, no less unoriginal and no less polluting of actual discussion, yet because they are "good fans" who enjoy the same show as the other "good fans," they are granted significantly more leeway and understanding, even support. "Bilbo of The Shire has every right to be here because he always gives the episodes an A+; he's obviously a fan, and you're not because you have yet to give it anything but an F. Sure, Bilbo limits his discussion to "So good I almost peed myself," every time whereas you make points about where the episode had plot holes and how bad the acting was and give 'advice' on how it could have been done better, but at least he enjoyed it, and you don't and never will."

Agreed to some extent. Hey, anyone who will actually go on record saying that Spock's Brain was the best Trek episode ever is either abusing certain substances or rarin' for a fight. While there can be differing opinions about an actor's skills or the strength of a screenplay for any given episode, I agree that blanket and blind admiration or condemnation is annoying just because of its repetitive and usually unsubstantiated nature. As far as I'm concerned, ENT has had its fair share of poor episodes ("Marauders", anyone?) that are fairly undefensible or even worthy of any defense.

Just because you're a positive fan doesn't mean you have all the answers, and it certainly doesn't mean that you aren't just as irritating as the people you denounce. If the critics are expected to keep their opinions about their fellow members quiet, however, and the zealots can do the same, then no one has a right to expect anyone else to leave simply because of the choices he's made or because he exercised his right to express his opinions. One-liners from either end of the spectrum, especially when they are the same one-liners, are where I think the bulk of the ill will is generated; they usually contain nothing substantive and are often intended, and pretty obviously, to dismiss someone else outright without 'breaking the rules', and the 'positive' fans have just as many guilty parties as the critics.

Again, I agree with the core sentiment, but I disagree with your characterization of the nature and extent of "guilty parties". I would find it natural for someone to drop a one-liner once in a while, but if someone were to offer a different opinion or ask them to justify it I would expect the original poster to substantiate their initial statement with some cogent argument.

If you don't agree with someone's ongoing criticism of the show, do something positive about it. Don't expect them to justify their choices unless you are prepared to justify yours, as well, because they have just as much right to ask what it is about the show that you find so well-done, so entertaining, so professional, that you would devote an hour of your time to watching it and more hours coming here to discuss it; when you ask why they dislike the show, be prepared to explain in just as much detail what it is that you find likable. Not just "Bakula's hot" or "It has great fx" or "Porthos barked" or "Because it's so much better than VOY," because every one of those reasons has a counterpart in the critics which has been dismissed outright.

Well, I'm always prepared to justify my opinions. I just cannot understand and I have not yet seen the beginning of a glimmer of an explanation as to why someone would subject themselves to watching upwards of 50 hours of a show they do not like. That is just pathological behavior.

Do you see how ridiculous this is? How unsupportable? How unnecessary? Discussion and debate require different viewpoints, or else it's all just group masturbation.

You seem to be able to read well enough, but somehow the point doesn't get across. My problem isn't with the existence of different viewpoints, it's with the fact that some opinions expressed here just do nothing to foster discussion and debate, rather the contrary by polluting and hindering such debate.

Frankly, I can't believe this discussion has gone on as long as it has; the simple answer is: Don't tell anybody else what to think, and don't expect anybody has to justify himself or his choices. If you don't like what they have to say, either offer a counter-argument that supports your own position, in the hopes that you might actually change their opinion, or move along; no one has the right to question the motivations of anyone else here.

Sorry, but that is just a load of bullshit. When I state my opinion I fully and completely expect to be called on it and to have to justify my position. If I were to say "Bakula rocked" and leave it at that, I would not expect you to come back with half a page of argumentation about how Bakula didn't rock, but rather to simply and succinctly point out that my opinion is unsupported and that I should provide argumentation or shut the hell up. I don't expect others to offer counter-arguments to idiocy and neither should you. And I am not in the business of trying to change other people's opinions. All I can do is state my own and defend it.

As to having the right to question motives, I will take that right, because we all do it in real life and I don't see why we should stop doing it here.
 
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Posted by Ptrope:
Has it occurred to any of the basher-bashers that perhaps the reason these people watch a show that you claim they hate is because they really enjoy this forum, and it is that that keeps them watching the show so that they can participate here? Maybe ENT isn't their major; maybe it's only their homework.

I'd like to highlight this because I think it's crucial to the argument.

I think Ptrope has hit the nail on the head when he says that a lot of people watch the show to discuss it. As I said earlier, a lot of people are here because they're Trek fans. Enterprise is the current Trek show on the air, so people who want to keep up with Trek are going to be watching it.

I realize there are a lot of people who like Enterprise here who say they wouldn't watch a show they don't like. I realize some of you walked away from the franchise (for either TNG, DS9, or VOY) if you didn't like the current show. But that was your personal choice, and others might make different choices. It's not your place to criticize or question them for that.

If you think it's strange, that's your business, but keep it to yourself. We all have different definitions of what's strange, so it's not really relevant.

I think if everyone were to let go of the snap judgments of others, the forum would be a better place. It would be more pleasant for both sides.

It's really the personal snipes that are at the heart of this forum's problems. I'm glad we've gotten to this point--we're having a civil, intelligent discussion about it. Now, how do we make it better?
 
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Posted by Stewey:
Posted by Borgminister:From some, there will never be that balance, and so I simply avoid or ignore their postings entirely. After all, foregone conclusions are not interesting to me.

If more people adoped this method, then perhaps the problems of this forum would be solved.

Absolutely Right.
 
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Posted by Top41:
It's not your place to criticize or question them for that.

If you think it's strange, that's your business, but keep it to yourself. We all have different definitions of what's strange, so it's not really relevant.

*applauds*

I am getting sick and fucking tired of hearing people "thinking aloud" about why person X is posting when they hate the show. It's nothing more than an attack on their character.

Why somebody watches or does not watch is none of anybody's business. They can hate the show; they can have a big glossy poster of the NX-01 on their wall that they use as target practice for dart throwing. It really doesn't matter.

Quite frankly all such speculations can just fuck off as far as i'm concerned. It just goes to demonstrate how small such people can be. Either refute the poster or ignore the poster - one or the other, there shouldn't be any inbetween as it's just a huge booby trap. But, as the saying goes, "when you run out of arguments and excuses you attack the person".

Well i've fucking had it with personal attacks. You want my participation in this "forum mediation"? Fine, here it is: start warning people for questioning the motives of other posters. It's been a rule here before, it should be again. Start nailing people for it, because it's beyond unproductive.

As an example, Stewey can be very stubborn and outspoken, but I believe he is right in one respect: nobody should be calling the validity of his motivation into question, only the validity of his points.
 
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Here a fuck, there a fuck, everywhere a fuck, fuck...

:rolleyes:

Speaking only for myself, I have never attached anyone's character or questioned their motivation, just so that's crystal clear.

My opinions remain my own and I have a right to them, however. Just like everyone else does.
 
Re: ENT Forum Mediation Thread--Please Participate

I finally managed to catch up with this thread.....

....but since I don't feel like typing out a three-page essay myself, I'll just say that Ptrope said an aweful lot of the things I was going to say.

I'll just add this.

Yes, there are bashers in the forum. But there are many, many more people who simply call it like they see it----not being negative for the sake of being negative, just being negative because they're not satisfied with what they see, and they'd like ENT to be better.

Sometimes I wonder whether the gushers can make that distinction.
 
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