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ENT Forum Mediation Thread--Please Participate!!!

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We're moving from general, board-related stuff to more specific, individual issues.

So whadda we do now? :confused:
 
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And to the mods, and all else who've suffered through the volley, I'm done. Back to work tomorrow, no time to write too much past tonight. The debate was fun, though. :)

Nephandus, and Reno, this should go without saying, but please don't take what I say personally. It's a debate for me, not a crusade. If it has come across otherwise, my sincerest apologies.
 
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Posted by Miss Thang:
We're moving from general, board-related stuff to more specific, individual issues.

So whadda we do now? :confused:

I'd like to hear from Lady C, T'Bonz, Top41 and 1001001 what they've gleaned from all this -- and I'm sure we will, once they've had a chance to wade through it all. :) I think we actually have made some constructive headway.
 
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Posted by tafkats:
I think we actually have made some constructive headway.

Somehow I sincerely doubt that, but it is always nice to hope. :)
 
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Posted by tafkats:
I'd like to hear from Lady C, T'Bonz, Top41 and 1001001 what they've gleaned from all this -- and I'm sure we will, once they've had a chance to wade through it all. :) I think we actually have made some constructive headway.

My Eyes! My Eyes! :p

Stock Answer No. 1
I know I've read some pretty interesting posts and ideas and concerns and we'll be trying to take it all on board.

Actually, while it was starting to veer a little off topic and get a little heated, I think I got a lot from SilveRisa, reno and Nephandus's conversation on how we interact sometimes.

They were all really saying the same thing on how personal insults weren't warranted but the way they summed that up, used examples etc misconstrued their meaning to the other participants and it went downhill from there (although only slightly). SilveRisa was upset because reno and Nephandus weren't taking his point and vice-versa because they were arguing the point they thought SilveRisa had made.

Neither side was wrong in their arguements but they weren't arguing the same thing even though they thought they were. I expect this sort of thing happens a lot more on the board than we give it credit for. (and this isn't meant as a slight on anyones comprehension skills - just a problem with the medium I expect)

And really I'm not sure what can be done about it either, short of hooking us all up to the :borg: collective :lol: Although being aware of it when we read other peoples posts and perhaps being a little more careful in how we word our own posts.

I did like your idea on the grading threads probably being expanded on more than they are tafkats.

That's all I can think of for now :)
 
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Posted by Lady Conqueror:

And really I'm not sure what can be done about it either, short of hooking us all up to the :borg: collective

*Sidles up to Lady Conqueror with a pair of nanoprobe injection tubules...*
 
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I dunno if this has been mentioned or not...(And I am not gonna take the time to wade through 7 pages of posts to find ou, not five minutes before I go to bed at least :P), but something that bothers me is the inordinate amount of posts about who's getting with who, or who thinks so and so is hot...I know that technically there isn't anything wrong with them, but they just knda bother me, because they seem to dominate this board a lot. I mean...isn't there something else to talk abou with the show? I guess the reason I don't like it, is cause I feel like it cheapens Trek in general to concentrate 5 pages on what Archer looked like when he took his shirt off in Desert Crossing.
Just my own little pet peeve, stated for its own sake.
 
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Posted by Lady Conqueror:
Neither side was wrong in their arguements but they weren't arguing the same thing even though they thought they were. I expect this sort of thing happens a lot more on the board than we give it credit for.

This is a good point, Conquerer, as lots of times it appears that individual sparring mates go off on different tangents and end up fighting different battles altogether.

I don't see it as something to be resolved in this thread, but perhaps something that one ought to think about prior to posting spumatic vitriol.
 
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Posted by tafkats:
I'd like to hear from Lady C, T'Bonz, Top41 and 1001001 what they've gleaned from all this -- and I'm sure we will, once they've had a chance to wade through it all. :) I think we actually have made some constructive headway.

When this thread is finished, we'll type up some kind of summary and resolutions thread, and pin it for everyone to see.

Overall, I'm pleased with how this is going, except for the very few who insist on making things personal. I have a great deal respect for those who examine their own behavior and consider what they can do to contribute to a better forum. In another thread, when I made that point, I was compared to someone who justified rape because "she was asking for it". Besides finding that comparison vulgar and extreme, I also find it a bit sad.

It's sad because people feel justified in breaking the rules if someone else breaks them first. The moral and intellectual equivalent of "I know you are but what am I?" If people would do what they already agreed to, ignore it and notify the mods, we'd get to it. But instead people respond and then point fingers "It's their fault I broke my own word! It's their fault I can't control my own behavior!" If people would just notify, and wait...

Still, that bit of a rant aside, I think the discussion is a good one, and I agree we should probably have a thread like this occassionally for the good of the forum. My attempt at "office hours" is a similar endeavor, to give people a chance to talk about what's going on with the forum.

I think when it all comes down to it, there are a very few that just don't care one way or the other. There's nothing to be done about that. The rest, I think we could make a great deal of progress by paying attention to how we post, laying off negative personal commentary, checking out assumptions before we make them, and just showing the tiniest bit of respect and courtesy for our fellow posters.
 
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It does seem that differences and misunderstandings do tend to get amplified in this medium. This is, unfortunately, a factor in the medium – which is often written casually, yet often read with precision, particularly when there is a disagreement. And I do apoligize for what does seem to be largely a “violent agreement”. I see them in the boardroom all the time. In this case, I’d like to focus on our “violent agreements” first.

I don’t like remarks that are extremely personally disparaging about people involved with the show. This includes – to some extent, even the “How to save Enterprise threads” – which invariably start off with “Fire Brannon and Braga”. I may agree with that action, or result, but there isn’t really a ton of insight into “saving Enterprise” in the statement.

Instead, how about “Hire Joss Whedon, or Billy Shakespeare” or some such writer who’s all that? Or a comment that is specific – like, “Fire Brannon and Braga because they apparently rewrite all the scripts, according to so-in-so, and evidently they do a poor job of it” (assuming that’s true- which it may not be – it’s just an example). The point being, that in a BBS, the insight is the thing that drives the discussion. Give us something to talk about, you know? Say what you need to say, but support it.

And, like some, I think it’s just rude to read the extremely disparaging remarks about people involved with the show, whether or not those remarks are irrelevant to the show’s quality. Comments about Brannon’s wife, or whether or not he celebrates the Black Sabbath communion weekly, really aren’t helpful or insightful. If you really think the work is terrible, there should be plenty of work on the screen to criticize without inventing new.

Posted by SilveRisa:
If you're not interested in educational pedigrees and writing credits, why did you ask for mine? I never asked for yours.

It was intended to put the whole – “you are a fan, so be one. These are the writers, so let them…” statement into a different context, so you could see how it sounded. Subsequent statements make it seem that your original statements came across to me, and to Reno in a very different way than you intended. I’ve never had a beef with anything you’ve said in the past, so I don’t think I was being ungenerous – though it does appear to be a misunderstanding. The focus of my disagreement was focused around that elitist sentiment – which it now appears you do not subscribe to.

Posted by SilveRisa:
I am curious, however, as to why you would focus necessarily on the PR coaching. I would suggest perhaps that people say what they mean, and so they often mean what they say.

Oh, I agree with you – people often do say what they mean. That doesn’t mean they should say it though, especially when the brand is welded to your name. I’m a PR guy – in the TV biz. You just don’t let spokespeople say things “off the cuff” like that. I find the comments themselves entertaining and amusing (and a little dissappointing) from a personal perspective. But from a professional perspective, I wince when they talk. To me, it either reflects on the competance of their handlers, or on their relationship with their handlers.

Their statements, interviews, claims and promises are an integral part of the publicity machine – which makes these aspects of them perfectly acceptable to comment on. If they promise specifics in their direct, personal appeals to fans (ie “iron clad continuity,” “fixing problems in Voyager” – where those problems are mentioned specifically) or make hyperbolic claims (“spasms of ecstacy”), then it is a direct reflection on their character if they don’t deliver. In cases like these – I do think it’s fair to criticize and speculate about personal qualities and subjective matters such as honesty, or the level of respect they have for their audience.

The publicity, ratings, and marketing of the show is as much a topic of discussion as anything else in here, and since they have worked so hard to make Berman and Braga part of the Trek brand (like Lee Iacocca, Martha Stewart, Rosie O’Donnell, Oprah Winfrey) – then I think this makes certain aspects of their persona into topics for legitimate discussion. Does this seem reasonable?

Again, to emphasize the agreement – I also don’t think it’s fair to say so-in-so can’t act or write. More importantly to me – such a statement offers no grist for the mill. Like you, I prefer to discuss specifics.
 
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Posted by 1001001:
If people would just notify, and wait...

More often than not, that strategy never works. The injured party is just left dangling and no action is taken. And then when they question it the answer is always - well you didn't respond so we thought it wasn't much of a problem!
 
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Posted by Nephandus:
Posted by SilveRisa:
If you're not interested in educational pedigrees and writing credits, why did you ask for mine? I never asked for yours.

It was intended to put the whole – “you are a fan, so be one. These are the writers, so let them…” statement into a different context, so you could see how it sounded. Subsequent statements make it seem that your original statements came across to me, and to Reno in a very different way than you intended. I’ve never had a beef with anything you’ve said in the past, so I don’t think I was being ungenerous – though it does appear to be a misunderstanding. The focus of my disagreement was focused around that elitist sentiment – which it now appears you do not subscribe to.

I quite agree. That was my biggest problem was the elitist nature of the comments. And to answer SilveRisa above, I didn't take anything personally, but I did get heated with your debating style which seemed to consist of stating a case and ignoring whole swathes of valid counter argument when responses were presented. That isn't debating to me, that's trying to bulldozer a POV through.

Many well reasoned arguments have gotten me to change my mind from time to time on this board, but that isn't the way anyone else ever went about it.
 
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Posted by 1001001:
It's sad because people feel justified in breaking the rules if someone else breaks them first.

More often, it is a case of someone either misunderstanding a post, mistating one's own point, or of being deliberately rude to another poster - though not necessarily against the rules.

A skilled writer - and there are many here - can certainly state a case in a way that doesn't come close to breaking a rule, yet which certainly is intended to project hostility, either instigating or responding to it.

I know I've seen it, I've been the target of it, and I've done it myself, being fully aware of how it sounded - though no "rules" were broken. It's a sticky wicket though - are you saying that people should press the "notify mod" button for these instances? I have to say - and I can't be alone, it's never occurred to me to call in a mod to arbitrate a post for a tone, a subtext that didn't explicitly violate a rule.

It is the policy even in this thread, and in MA to try not to speculate on a poster's motivations in posting in a hostile manner, or to attach a "tone" to someone's post. I see the reasons for it - misunderstandings happen. But by the same token, if there isn't a known recourse for that kind of "below the radar" hostility, I do think it results in a bit of carefully worded tit for tat, which can sometimes develop into an outright flame, later on.

Are you saying that the mod button should be pressed for these instances as well, whether or not they break the stated policy? If so, would it be effective to have a text field in the Notify Mod button to make a case?
 
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Posted by Crosis:
I dunno if this has been mentioned or not...(And I am not gonna take the time to wade through 7 pages of posts to find ou, not five minutes before I go to bed at least :P), but something that bothers me is the inordinate amount of posts about who's getting with who, or who thinks so and so is hot...I know that technically there isn't anything wrong with them, but they just knda bother me, because they seem to dominate this board a lot. I mean...isn't there something else to talk abou with the show? I guess the reason I don't like it, is cause I feel like it cheapens Trek in general to concentrate 5 pages on what Archer looked like when he took his shirt off in Desert Crossing.
Just my own little pet peeve, stated for its own sake.

Ok, here we go:

I am on the opposite side of this statement. I like looking at the male eye candy. I've been drawn in by the type of sex appeal that ENT sells. And since unfortunately we've been getting very little other substance from the show that's what is keeping me watching.

BUT, the way Crosis worded his post is IMHO the exact way we should agree to disagree in the forum. He stated his opinion, explained what he didn't like and never went for he personal attack. I can respect him and disagree with him at the same time.

And hell, I'd be the first one to admit that I'm a hypocrite and don't like when Jolene gets too sexed up on the show. :o
 
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"Notify Mod" has worked pretty well for me. Doesn't mean that every time I think something's a problem the mods agree and do what I telepathically command them to. Bugger. :lol:
 
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Originally when I started coming here it was for the Enterprise forum because it was fun. Aside from a few of Miss Thang’s (and other similar fun loving sorts) threads I no longer find intelligent and fun discussion here. To some people an intelligent discussion does not mean a combative argument. Not everyone wants to have their chains yanked by rude cynics with the mental maturity of a fourteen year old Spock wannabe. To be totally fair, when I checked around before posting here, some of the worst offenders seem to be gone so maybe the good intentions of this thread will amount to something. I’ll wait and see.

Not everyone wants to see complete negativity to the show and/or its creators - if you have criticism, that is completely legit, valid and merited, but it is something else if there is continually nothing positive said whatsoever. That is what spawns the “then don’t watch the show” comments - it is partly frustration at reading complete negativity continually from the same person. I read a comment one time from an online critic that seems to sum this up perfectly (I’ll have to paraphrase) - the Star Trek fan comunity seems to be determined to be unhappy with the product that inspires their devotion. If I want to be as frustrated and unhappy as some people seem to be with Enterprise, I'll read the newspaper or talk to my banker.

Now, if I come to this BBS I usually just go straight to the SF&F forum. It's less depressing and insulting, and it can still be fun.
 
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Posted by reno floyd:
Posted by 1001001:
If people would just notify, and wait...

More often than not, that strategy never works. The injured party is just left dangling and no action is taken. And then when they question it the answer is always - well you didn't respond so we thought it wasn't much of a problem!

You and everyone else here already agreed to follow that strategy when they opened their accounts. It's not a suggestion, it's not optional. That is exactly and very explicitly what's expected of all of us. We'll get to it as soon as we possibly can, honestly.

Perhaps we could ask more clearly for a bit more time and patience. There are so many threads and so many posts. Often I'll get the notification, go right to the thread, and find 2-3 negative responses already there. Then I'm left with two options: warning all parties, or warning none.

This really irks me, because those who respond negatively are the ones complaining we don't do enough, but the negative retaliatory posts prevent us from doing the very thing people complain that we don't do! It's a no-win situation for the mods.

Lastly, I'd like to again ask everyone (not just critics, but everyone): it's easy to talk about what you want other people to do, to list all the changes you want them to make. I'm asking all of the regulars in this forum to dig deep, and ask what you are willing to do differently. What are you willing to change to make this a better place?

Ask not what your forum can do for you, ask what you can do for your forum!
 
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Posted by Nephandus:
It is the policy even in this thread, and in MA to try not to speculate on a poster's motivations in posting in a hostile manner, or to attach a "tone" to someone's post. I see the reasons for it - misunderstandings happen. But by the same token, if there isn't a known recourse for that kind of "below the radar" hostility, I do think it results in a bit of carefully worded tit for tat, which can sometimes develop into an outright flame, later on.

Are you saying that the mod button should be pressed for these instances as well, whether or not they break the stated policy? If so, would it be effective to have a text field in the Notify Mod button to make a case?

I don't know how much of a hack it would take to implement this, perhaps we should question Charles Capps, but the other option - if you feel really strongly about a post and are unsure about getting your point across with the 'notify mod' button is to use either the PM facility (as mods we have it turned on) or email (most of us have email listed in our profile).
 
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I think another really nice feature would be to have mods lurk from time to time on posts and nip some of the nastiness in the bud. I know your rebel forces are few. Perhaps you could use a few more recruits? I have some nominations .....

Occasionally I'll see something and think "Holy shit, is anyone reading this?!"
 
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