OK, I apologize for the real fans comment, I should have said fans of a traditional Superman. I guess it just seems kind of strange to me to see a person who says they're a fan of a character who seems to hate everything that makes that character who they are in most versions.
I understand and respect your point of view. And I know many share that. In fact, they are among the most vocal among fans. Others, like me and many like me, stopped sharing that we are a fan of for example Cavill/Snyder's Superman, because we get treated like we are horrible people by the more traditional crowd. 'This Superman killed, how dare you like this version!!'
And, again, there is a very vocal part in any fandom, which leads to the concept that that part of said fandom is what the entire fandom is like. Which is often simply not true.
I am a huge Star Trek fan. I know quite a few who, like me, watch the shows and movies. And that's it. In that group, I am the only one that has Star Trek books and few little nicknacks for on shelfs and posts on this forum. I don't own a costume, or have posters and what not. Don't go to conventions. I just geek out over the shows and movies and talk about it sometimes. Yet many people still believe that's what all Star Trek fans do. Because they are, well..... louder. Not in a negative way, but they are.
Same goes for the Superman fans you talk about. The majority just reads the comics for fun and put them away again. They'll watch a movie or a show and that's it. They'll have an opinion about it, thoughts and ideas. But they don't really talk about them, or search out places to do so. They just enjoy reading the comics. Does this make THEM less of a fan? Because they are more casual.
You use the word 'hate'. That is an intense feeling. So is love. Many people who read comics are watch certain shows or movies don't 'hate' or 'love' anything. They just enjoy, or do not. It doesn't have such a huge impact on them. It's just there. I REALLY like Star Trek, and have favorites. I don't HATE any Star Trek. If I didn't enjoy it, I don't watch it. I don't go online and get angry at fans for enjoying it because I dislike it.
Not would I ever call someone else not a real fan for disliking something I enjoy. That would be an unhealthy sign of my passion for something taking over my humane thought process, if I ever decided to get so mean to another human being for disagreeing with me.