Admittedly, I'm biased about this point anyway because I'm not interested about a movie that is, once again, focused on Kirk.
There are a million of plots I can think about and what they could do with this cast, and tailoring a movie on the idea we gotta bring his dad back because the actor is famous now is, well, just a waste for me.
I already thought, honestly, that into darkness was a waste because of that and because it focused too much on kirk. I felt the priority for continuity sake should've been dealing with the aftermath of the destruction of vulcan that was a bigger and most impactful plot they had , but instead Spock got kind of sidelined to focus on Kirk and his daddy issues and as a result, 3 years later (beyond) Spock suddenly remembers he's a survivor and may need to help the vulcans after that part had been already, more or less, resolved in ID and the last scene of ST09 where Spock Prime urges him to remain in starfleet.
In ID, I couldn't help but feel like Kirk's issues as a new captain were just of lesser importance in that moment than Spock, the vulcans and the federation itself having to deal with a fairly recent tragedy such as the complete destruction of a whole planet. His issues didn't deserve, in that moment, to be the primary focus right after a movie like ST09 where something so devastating had happened.
To this day, one of the things that make me feel unable to truly connect to the k/S friendship the movie preaches about IS precisely the aspect that I never saw Kirk acting as a friend to Spock, in a way. I never saw him asking Spock if he was Ok after what happened to vulcan, I never saw him wondering if he had ptsd. Only Uhura seems to even notice that Spock may have a death wish.
Kirk was only focused on Spock not getting they were friends, but aside from saving him he didn't really give the man any reason to believe they were friends. . I just can't agree with the notion that Spock was being the one 'dense' because he's alien. I honestly would probably perceive things the same way if I were in his place.
Basically, it's like we never got a real sequel of ST09. And in the end, both kirk and spock keep getting dragged into having to deal with the same conflict.