Why would it be rich?
I'm not talking about a job as a cashier, office jobs or anything like that.
Sex is a very vital part of a relationship and for most people it's an exclusive part of the relationship. Most people break up when the partner has slept with someone else so i don't believe it's a secondary part of the relationship open to compromise.
It is a very difficult topic but as i said it's best to bring it up now when a split or remaining friends without too much pain is entire possible. Finding out she won't look for a new career after you have fallen in love could perhaps cause ongoing pain which could be avoided if things had been talked about in advance and everybody knows where they stand on the issue.
I never said to expect to give up her job.. she wouldn't have to if he can handle it (doubtful) but it's best she knows he wouldn't be able to handle it and the only solution would be a career change for her if she is indeed serious about him.
That's not 1950s "My woman doesn't work!" style macho behaviour but a real issue.
If she doesn't want to change careers and he can't handle it then shake hands and remain friends, she is a person after all with whom you could hang out, go to the movies or simply talk.. it will just end there and not go further for the benefit of them both.
I'm not talking about a job as a cashier, office jobs or anything like that.
Sex is a very vital part of a relationship and for most people it's an exclusive part of the relationship. Most people break up when the partner has slept with someone else so i don't believe it's a secondary part of the relationship open to compromise.
It is a very difficult topic but as i said it's best to bring it up now when a split or remaining friends without too much pain is entire possible. Finding out she won't look for a new career after you have fallen in love could perhaps cause ongoing pain which could be avoided if things had been talked about in advance and everybody knows where they stand on the issue.
I never said to expect to give up her job.. she wouldn't have to if he can handle it (doubtful) but it's best she knows he wouldn't be able to handle it and the only solution would be a career change for her if she is indeed serious about him.
That's not 1950s "My woman doesn't work!" style macho behaviour but a real issue.
If she doesn't want to change careers and he can't handle it then shake hands and remain friends, she is a person after all with whom you could hang out, go to the movies or simply talk.. it will just end there and not go further for the benefit of them both.
>>SNORT!!!<<
