That's an interesting point and relates to my question. What if it were written by a straight man? Would you suddenly get the feeling "Hm, he's making fun OF gays, right?"?So no, I wouldn't call the movie homophobic in the least - especially given that it was written by Paul Rudnick (who also wrote the screenplay for In And Out). It's actually a very sweet movie.
Not necessarily. It would depend upon the context of the scene within the movie as a whole. What purpose does the scene or the character serve? Does it make sense for the character to be a flaming gay man, given the rest of the elements of the story?
I admit that I'd probably look at it a lot more critically than I did in this particular movie.