That sucks PKTrekGirl! I didn't have those health issues, but chipped my two upper front teeth and ground my molars. Multiple fillings, 15 crowns on 8 teeth (molars), 3 of those root-canal-Ed, one of those yanked and replaced with an implant ($2500!!!---don't do that). So I've spent some "good times" at the dentist. Oh, and pain killer wears off fast.
Egads! I thought I'd win the prize for most time spent in a dentist's chair, but I concede that place to you!

It's been no easy road, as I'm sure you know. I still hate going in there, even though I have a dentist who I like very much, a hygienist who I also like alot, etc. They try to make it as painless as possible, but it's never gonna be fun.
I wouldn't wish this on anyone...but I *am* glad that someone around here appreciates the fact that no amount of brushing could have prevented the hand that I was dealt in this regard.
I do hope the OP gets to the dentist though. Because as I said, I wouldn't wish this on anyone.