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Anyone here have a hard time turning down the opposite sex?

I've had a lot of women show interest(not for a relationship mind you, but sex), and its been harder and harder to turn them down..each one has been hotter than the next...It seems like women of all ages don't care if you're married anymore, it amazes me.

.....

Gee.

Wish I had your problems.

I'd give both my nuts to get even one woman to show any interest in me whatsoever.

You need to find ways to fill the emptiness in your soul.

Like working out and contemplating adultery! :techman:
 
You need to find ways to fill the emptiness in your soul.

Like working out and contemplating adultery! :techman:

Apparently.

I think Rama would make a good personal trainer but Random Dude at Bally's will probably have to do.
 
It's a Star Trek forum. Most of us probably have a hard time finding the opposite sex.

That's always funny, but in reality I think the majority of the people here have fairly normal relationships. I could be wrong, but I don't think that stereotype is really as widespread as generally assumed.

RAMA
 
i think my gayness makes women find me irresistable or something. it's ridiculus the amount of times girls have come on to me.
 
I found that my opportunities for sex with women doubled once I got married. It's like some cruel joke. Once in a bar a girl was flirting with me and I fessed up that not only was I married but my wife was at the other end of the bar. That only excited the girl more. What the hell?

I think it's the desperation meter a guy has. When you're single the meter runs high and it's a turn off. But married, it's so low the warning light is like a beacon.

That's another thing I've discovered, once you commit, women just want you more!

I had a similar experience actually...I told the girl I was married and she actually suggested tying my wife to a chair to watch us...no this was NOT in a bar. We were both sober...she just seemed really excited.

RAMA
 
I've had a lot of women show interest(not for a relationship mind you, but sex), and its been harder and harder to turn them down..each one has been hotter than the next...It seems like women of all ages don't care if you're married anymore, it amazes me.

.....

Gee.

Wish I had your problems.

I'd give both my nuts to get even one woman to show any interest in me whatsoever.

You need to find ways to fill the emptiness in your soul.

Like working out and contemplating adultery! :techman:

There's a 23 yr old blonde I can think of that would fill up the emptiness quite nicely. :lol: Must think...about...baseball...

RAMA
 
I have always been bad with getting women. I don't have any girls coming on to me. ....So if I ever had a girl that did find me interesting, I probably would have a hard time turning her down if she was hot.

thats pretty much my story
the last one turned out to be an escort giving a free be, (I only found out later when she gave her a card).
that was in the late 90's

But there are times I feel I'd have better odds at winning the Lotto.

as a buddy once insulted me with this line "Bill you couldn't get luck in a whore house with a fist full of $50's".

so the biggest loser is not on TV he's here.
:( .
 
.....

Gee.

Wish I had your problems.

I'd give both my nuts to get even one woman to show any interest in me whatsoever.

You need to find ways to fill the emptiness in your soul.

Like working out and contemplating adultery! :techman:

There's a 23 yr old blonde I can think of that would fill up the emptiness quite nicely. :lol: Must think...about...baseball...

RAMA

Wow...classy.
 
or same sex I suppose if you're gay...anyway...

This applies mainly to people in long-term relationships/marriage.

I've been married a long time, I'm generally pretty happy, can't complain much, but I go through stretches where I have lots of women come on to me...I usually am told that I have a "taken" look and I try not to be flirty, so as to deter potential interest, but lately I've had a lot of women show interest(not for a relationship mind you, but sex), and its been harder and harder to turn them down..each one has been hotter than the next...It seems like women of all ages don't care if you're married anymore, it amazes me. So far I've done nothing but talk to a couple, but its always in the back of my head. I know that it should be easy not to think these thoughts at this point, but I'm a normal healthy male and well..we're not perfect..

RAMA

If you're even considering cheating on your wife then maybe your marriage isn't worth continuing with and you should both go separate ways.
Ask yourself this question, if your wife left you would you be able to live without her? Could you see yourself living without her?
 
If you're even considering cheating on your wife then maybe your marriage isn't worth continuing with and you should both go separate ways.

This is unfair. It's human and natural to look, and it's unnatural not to look. He specifically said the thought was in the back of his mind, not the front. His penis may be up and looking for fun, but his brain is big enough to shout it down. He's not actually considering cheating, he's just saying that the situations occasionally present themselves.

As for me, there's only ever been one occasion when the opposite sex was hitting on me so hard that I couldn't ignore it, and I had to tell her, "Look, I'm going to have to ask you to stop, because I stick to my own kind." She took it well enough.

When I was young and geeky, people never hit on me, except for one time when I first went away to university. A guy asked me out, and I was so astonished by the entire concept of somebody being interested in me that I said yes, even though I wasn't interested in him at all.

When I was in my 20s and hot, I got hit on constantly - but then I constantly put myself in very sexual situations. I usually went for it. You're only young and hot for a short time, so make the most of it.

With my husband of 15 years, we had an open relationship, where we would pick up guys at bars for threesomes, go to bathhouses together, cruise the internet, etc. Don't try to tell me this means my relationship is worthless - it's all about the conscious and open decisions you make as a couple. We both accepted the fact that it was unrealistic to ever expect the other to never look at another man, and as long as we were safe and discreet, and the other was only ever another body in the bed and not another person in the relationship, then sleeping with other guys was fine. That's the benefit of being a same-sex couple rather an opposite-sex couple: Not only do your double your wardrobe, but you're both interested in the same kind of people - men.

Now that I'm older and fatter, the above principle in still officially in effect, but practically it's too much effort. Neither of us really get hit on or can really be bothered hitting on anybody else, so the issue never arises.
 
No offense, Rama, but this thread strikes me as being pretty egotistical. So, you lift weights, and women throw themselves at you, that's great. Anything else really great about you we need to know?
 
No offense, Rama, but this thread strikes me as being pretty egotistical. So, you lift weights, and women throw themselves at you, that's great. Anything else really great about you we need to know?

Eh, refreshing after all these "My life is so horrible, nobody likes me, I hate myself" type of threads.
 
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