thats a tough one, i admit. alright put it this way, command officers that are involved shouldn't be allowed to serve together. well, i suppose this could be considered discrimination and its hard to live up to but i still have strong objections about this. when it comes to the safety of the crew and the ship nothing should interfere with the commanding officers or command crews decision.
as i stated before, conflict of interest is a dangerous thing... but then again i'm not really objective in this matter. military family and all that. so we probably wont see eye to eye on this one.
Well my father and brother served with the Nova Scotia Highlanders, 1st Battalion (North), which is a CF Reserve Militia, while my cousin, as mentioned before, is assigned to the Canadian Forces itself and served in Afghanistan at the Kandahar Base.... and I almost got into the Highlanders as well, but some YMCA yuppie doing the endurance tests gave me crap over my pushups apparently not being done right and didn't let me in.... even though by the end of the testing I did over double the amount of pushups required. Even my father was there and bitched the guy out, wondering wtf was wrong with him.
I fully understand the conflict of interest issue, and I agree with today's standards as they stand.... but when looking at these standards in the Star Trek environment, they seem to have a different take on the subject.... which I can kind of agree with as well, being a different era in humanity then what we live today.
there is always two sides of a coin as they say. with family aboard everyone would work harder but its the thing to put family ahead of duty is what scares the brass.
and as you said Kira is behind this. she should have gotten at least a formal reprimand for endangering the mission like that.
Agreed.
now, worf did get away quite easily in my eyes but if i was in his CO's position i wouldnt stop him from receiving a command. yes, i would think twice about it and i would make it harder for him but in my eyes, ultimately the blame lies with Kira. the regulations are in place in order to prevent people from having to do these kind of decisions. the thing is no rational person would sacrifice his wife for a mission and no one should be put in a position like that.
Also agree... one would think with Kira's resistance experience with working closely with people you care for, trust, and even in a relationship with or family (Her father) ..... and being the first officer of DS9, she would have known better.
As you said before, these procedures of not sending two people in a relationship on a mission alone together that poses risks are there for a good reason.... as Worf proved by his actions. He and Dax were sent where they were ordered and as hard as Worf tried to continue the mission (He did try) his personal feelings over-ruled.
with that said, with the bashing of worf. i would hade done the same if i was in worf's shoes. and i would have gladly even taken a dishonorable discharge than live with the decision to have sacrificed my wife.
Agreed.