Does Anyone Go to Strip Clubs?

[Star Wolf]

^^ Not all strippers are hot or even appealing in the generally accepted sense. Quite a few might challenge your ideas as to what constitutes appealing. Then again they have to cater to different tastes. I've actually seen generously chubby girls make a decent buck as a stripper.

Reminds me of Showgirls and a Darryl Hannah movie: Dancing at the Blue Iguna. Its not about looks. Elin Woods looks better then any of the Tiger sluts

Its not about her looks. In Showgirls the dancer in her stripper career lap dances one guy to orgasm and lets another guy finger her. In the other movie a dancer is selling oral sex in the VIP room. There are websites which review almost every strip club in the world and rate the individual dancers on so-called milage they provide. In other words masturbating their customers in the legal manner. If they don't directly touch his penis there is no crime.

 

[emacs]

What is your take on these institutions?

for the most part, boring in the US and much more fun up here in Canada

 

[The Castellan]

If they don't directly touch his penis there is no crime.

Speak for yourself, that's herasy, without touching it.

 

[TorontoTrekker]

I've been to one, and the girls could sense how uncomfortable I was ( gay guy in a straight club). They took it on as some sort of mission to make me, uh, enjoy the free dances they threw my way.

I've been to one of each. The first one was a straight club, and I said to my friends, "The first person who buys me a lap dance dies."

The second trip, to the gay strip club in town, was with a bi friend. The whole evening had a strange vibe to it, as though it were kind of a date and yet not at the same time. I later asked him what his intentions had been, and he said, "I just wanted to hang out with you." The weird thing is that he'd never done it before, and he's not done it since (he's since gotten married, to a woman).

In both cases, I was more bored than anything else. The guys at Remington's weren't my type, and the women at the Brass Rail most certainly weren't. I'd just as soon go watch the Best Ass Contest at Woody's on a Friday night - at least those are regular people who don't spend all day lifting weights. (Well, the Cirque du Soleil performer I saw on stage at Woody's one night might have. We were all more freaked out when he lifted one leg straight up in the air without having to hold onto anything for balance, though.)

 

[Plomeek Broth]

Anybody ever hooked up with one?

 

[Amaris]

I don't go to strip clubs. I've had lots of offers from friends to take me to one (they've made it their mission to "de-virginize" me and think that would help). I'm not interested in them. To me, it's nothing more than a tease, and that is something I most certainly do not need.

J.

 

[Plomeek Broth]

I don't go to strip clubs. I've had lots of offers from friends to take me to one (they've made it their mission to "de-virginize" me and think that would help). I'm not interested in them. To me, it's nothing more than a tease, and that is something I most certainly do not need.

J.

Unless you go home with one of the fine employees, it ain't worth a red penny.

The next day you would be feeling in your empy wallet and saying - damn, I could have bought TNG season 1-7!

 

[Amaris]

I don't go to strip clubs. I've had lots of offers from friends to take me to one (they've made it their mission to "de-virginize" me and think that would help). I'm not interested in them. To me, it's nothing more than a tease, and that is something I most certainly do not need.

J.

Unless you go home with one of the fine employees, it ain't worth a red penny.

The next day you would be feeling in your empy wallet and saying - damn, I could have bought TNG season 1-7!

True. I didn't even get to the part about the money. Put it this way: If I have spent a significant amount of money over a woman who is taking off her clothes, it's because I bought her dinner, we saw a movie, and she wants to take the date to an intimate level. It certainly wouldn't be because I felt like shoving a bunch of $20s down a g-string.

J.

 

[Plomeek Broth]

I don't go to strip clubs. I've had lots of offers from friends to take me to one (they've made it their mission to "de-virginize" me and think that would help). I'm not interested in them. To me, it's nothing more than a tease, and that is something I most certainly do not need.

J.

Unless you go home with one of the fine employees, it ain't worth a red penny.

The next day you would be feeling in your empy wallet and saying - damn, I could have bought TNG season 1-7!

True. I didn't even get to the part about the money. Put it this way: If I have spent a significant amount of money over a woman who is taking off her clothes, it's because I bought her dinner, we saw a movie, and she wants to take the date to an intimate level. It certainly wouldn't be because I felt like shoving a bunch of $20s down a g-string.

J.

That's the right attitude. You are not missing anything.

 

[Amaris]

Unless you go home with one of the fine employees, it ain't worth a red penny.

The next day you would be feeling in your empy wallet and saying - damn, I could have bought TNG season 1-7!

True. I didn't even get to the part about the money. Put it this way: If I have spent a significant amount of money over a woman who is taking off her clothes, it's because I bought her dinner, we saw a movie, and she wants to take the date to an intimate level. It certainly wouldn't be because I felt like shoving a bunch of $20s down a g-string.

J.

That's the right attitude. You are not missing anything.

Thanks. Another deterrant was watching what happened to one of my friends. He became obsessed with them, spending entire paychecks at a local strip club. He got nothing from it, but he insisted that it was worth it. If he thought so, okay, but to this day he has very little, and nothing to show for the tens of thousands of dollars he threw away.

J.

 

[Warped9]

True. I didn't even get to the part about the money. Put it this way: If I have spent a significant amount of money over a woman who is taking off her clothes, it's because I bought her dinner, we saw a movie, and she wants to take the date to an intimate level. It certainly wouldn't be because I felt like shoving a bunch of $20s down a g-string.

J.

That's the right attitude. You are not missing anything.

Thanks. Another deterrant was watching what happened to one of my friends. He became obsessed with them, spending entire paychecks at a local strip club. He got nothing from it, but he insisted that it was worth it. If he thought so, okay, but to this day he has very little, and nothing to show for the tens of thousands of dollars he threw away.

J.

Kinda sheds a different light on who is more likely being exploited, right?

Anybody ever hooked up with one?

Actually about twenty years ago I did date a dancer a few times. She was a cute French Canadian girl named Natalie that I think in the long term I could have become smitten with. Actually she was quite nice, but she also had some issues going on that (at the time) she needed to straighten out. I lost touch with her at some point and never saw her again. At the time I was rather disappointed, but such is life.

 

[The Castellan]

What is your take on these institutions?

for the most part, boring in the US and much more fun up here in Canada

Damn right....alot of these US ones make the girls where crap pn their nipples, and you can't tough 'em....some of them are made to keep the girls several feet from you.

Canadian ones....MUCH better, the one I mentioned...the girls were all over us.

 

[RAMA]

I find this thread fascinating!

I haven't been a frequent visitor over the years, but the last time I went in 2003, I had a hell of a time with my wife; the girls were amazing(don't know where some of you guys have been going); and my wife and I had great sex afterwards. The only problem...like anything else, is if you become obsessed and overdo it.

RAMA

 

[An Officer]

A good dancer can be very good, but not because they're naked. Would have done just as well if they had kept their underwear on. Not my choice of hangout, but a friend insisted on dragging me along a couple of times. I don't think I'd allow myself to be led to a strip joint again, probably because I keep myself stone cold sober these days. A strip joint is not a place you should ever hang out sober.

 

[FPAlpha]

I don't get the idea behind it.. i go to a club where (hopefully) attractive women dance seductively and heat me up.

So far so good.. i like being turned on by women.

But then.. hands off!! You are not allowed to go any further than maybe light touching (if that) so you are left with a lighter wallet and a huge boner.
You can't (usually) take home the stripper and get sweaty and if i had a girlfriend/wife i'd consider it dishonest and low to let myself be turned on intentionally and then release my boner with her.

So these clubs hold no interest for me.. all you do is pay to get a boner and i can get that free by myself at home watching some porn.

 

[John Picard]

I have knew someone who was friends with a couple of strip club managers in my area. It seems that many of the women who dance have *serious issues* such as drugs and self-esteem. The idea that dating a stripped would be awesome, as he put it, would be more of a train-wreck.

 

[sidious618]

I'll never forget the stripper who approached me with absolutely no provocation, twisted the hell out of my nipples and asked me if I wanted a dance.

I asked her why she did that, and she said "You looked like you would be into that kind of thing."

Well, when you're right, you're right, I suppose.

 

[The Castellan]

I don't get the idea behind it.. i go to a club where (hopefully) attractive women dance seductively and heat me up.

So far so good.. i like being turned on by women.

But then.. hands off!! You are not allowed to go any further than maybe light touching (if that) so you are left with a lighter wallet and a huge boner.
You can't (usually) take home the stripper and get sweaty and if i had a girlfriend/wife i'd consider it dishonest and low to let myself be turned on intentionally and then release my boner with her.

So these clubs hold no interest for me.. all you do is pay to get a boner and i can get that free by myself at home watching some porn.

Go to Canada...the girls in those ones go all over you, and as I said me and Melina had a hell of a time.

 

[The Castellan]

I have knew someone who was friends with a couple of strip club managers in my area. It seems that many of the women who dance have *serious issues* such as drugs and self-esteem. The idea that dating a stripped would be awesome, as he put it, would be more of a train-wreck.

Most that I know are the opposite. It's many of the chicks in the corporate office enviroments that are the messed up ones.

 

[emacs]

So these clubs hold no interest for me.. all you do is pay to get a boner and i can get that free by myself at home watching some porn.

you are by yourself at home watching two dimensional images whereas at the club you interact with real people in real situations having a great time. the latter is far more interesting.