Women! Give up your secrets!

[Squiggy]

Harmlessness=comfortableness so I'd be ok with that. It's not like I'm dating undergrads who only wanna hang out with the bad boy.

 

[Australis]

.... so, she doesn't know you ARE the Bad Boy yet?

 

[nevermore]

Ok, so here's the timeline. Let me know if I'm just being an idiot.

Met online about 3 weeks ago. Emailed back and forth and set up a date for this Saturday.

Thursday we're texting back and forth and she says she could use some cheering up and asked if I could meet her up at her place after work for drinking and what not. So, I did. We went to a bar thats on an adjacent block and drank and talked for about 3 hours. Afterward we walked her dog (who loves me) and she wrapped her arm around mine. Back to her place for more drinking and we ended up drinking until after the time the subway closed, so she suggested I stay at her place.

Being the drunken fool that I was, I didn't object. I would've taken a cab, but no biggie. I'm trying to avoid the whole "sleeping with a girl on the first date thing" because that never works. So, since my deadline was already past we drank some more and laughed and then she whipped out the photo album and she reminiscenced.

Fun times.

After a while we finally went to sleep and I did sleep in her bed but no funny bidness. She did wrap my arm around her in a general "spooning" fashion. Again, I'm trying to be good this time around. I left for work with the world's worst hangover wearing the same clothes I did the day before and here we stand texting back and forth.

I'm worrying about this because I curious as to how much of this is due to the booze and how much of this is actually her.

This thread has to be a joke. I refuse to believe that you're actually this dense.

Ok, so, she was interested in you. I can't promise she still is after the above, but ask her if she wants to go grab some drinks and then, if she invites you back to her apartment and into her bed and you don't get the oh-so-subtle "hint", she's not going to think "boy, what a nice guy!", she's going to think you're one of the following: a) you're gay; b) you're impotent; c) you're waaay to much work; or d) you just want to be friends.

 

[Squiggy]

Point well taken.

 

[Squiggy]

It's a moot point now. She met another guy over the weekend.

Ah well.

 

[Gepard]

It's a moot point now. She met another guy over the weekend.

Well done. Did you tell her about the airplane thing? Because you totally should have leveraged your fame.

 

[nevermore]

It's a moot point now. She met another guy over the weekend.

Ah well.

I think you dodged a bullet here.

 

[Squiggy]

I guess I'll have all the more reason to drink with my after-work date this evening.

 

[JustKate]

I agree with Liberal. I mean, jeez.

 

[Pingfah]

And to think you changed your user name for this girl. At least you didn't get a tattoo.

 

[Shatmandu]

Alright. So, I was on a date Thursday night and I'm pretty sure it went well. We stayed up drinking a lot longer than we were supposed to talking and laughing and yada yada yada.

I'm pretty into this girl and was wondering what are the little signals you give to let a guy know you're interested.

If she insists on demonstrating that she can cross her ankles behind her neck, it's a good sign.

Joe, subtle

 

[Shatmandu]

It's a moot point now. She met another guy over the weekend.

Ah well.

Give MadBaggins his number.

Joe, Misc.

 

[Kirk's_Tights]

I used to wear low cut shirts and poke my twins in my husband's direction back in the day.

Good times.

 

[sidious618]

It's a moot point now. She met another guy over the weekend.

Ah well.

Sorry to hear it Squiggs but you're better off without her.

 

[Tim]

She ran into me on the street the other day and introduced me to her folks who were with her at the time. I think I didn't say anything dumb.

Of course this is the lady who dumped me by text message in late winter, but I think my gentle persistence may have won her over (I hope).

 

[TheBrew]

It's a moot point now. She met another guy over the weekend.

Ah well.

This is why some women tend to confuse guys... they send all kinds of mixed signals.