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Then she started crying...

For cripessakes, STOP this dumb-ass trolling! :brickwall:

That's trolling? Isn't that considered just "funny"???

It's trolling (IMO) because it's an unwarrented attack on a poster with no good reason behind it. And whatever it is, it's certainly not funny...

Yeah you're right this bathroom humor is just plain immature and unwarranted. I can't believe half the stuff that comes out of these peoples mouths and they claim to be adults! :shifty:

So yeah back on topic....they were both wrong...him for his own reasons and this girl obviously has some deep rooted unresolved issues.

Lord knows I've had some bad dick in my day...but nothing that could of made me cry.
 
Allow me to clarify: it has been my experience that someone who is capable of walking out on a crying* woman he has just finished fucking has sent any number of signs as to near-sociopathic levels of self-involvement from word "go." This is, apparently, what passes for confident and sexy in our society today. Any woman who is hurt in any way by such a man she herself has chosen is not a victim. She's simply getting precisely what she bargained for.

*And once again, I doubt the tears had anything to do with the quality of the sex; women who cry during sex usually do so as part of their orgasm. But he did not know that. And even if he did, he should have shown a modicum of class.
 
Alright....LOL I must step in...I see my "services" are needed here.

I am willing to bet my life..that's right I'm willing to be killed if I'm wrong about this (but sorry all you haters I'm not)...the girl didn't have an orgasm...I mean LOL here. You guys need to look up how a woman achieve orgasm and it's not through bad sex (as this was) or usually any kind of sex.
I'm not saying it can't happen...but for most women it's not the norm. I doubt this guy rubbed her clit so hard and fast that she came...really...so let's just get this straight...she wasn't crying because of an intense orgasm...no that's not what you'd be doing...you'd be writhing and crying out and convulsing...but not crying.
 
Alright....LOL I must step in...I see my "services" are needed here.

I am willing to bet my life..that's right I'm willing to be killed if I'm wrong about this (but sorry all you haters I'm not)...the girl didn't have an orgasm...I mean LOL here. You guys need to look up how a woman achieve orgasm and it's not through bad sex (as this was) or usually any kind of sex.
I'm not saying it can't happen...but for most women it's not the norm. I doubt this guy rubbed her clit so hard and fast that she came...really...so let's just get this straight...she wasn't crying because of an intense orgasm...no that's not what you'd be doing...you'd be writhing and crying out and convulsing...but not crying.

QFT

... and he'd not have any doubts about what she was crying about.
 
Thank you Jenee....I've been waiting patiently for a woman to back me up when I've posted this info as various times. This made my day.
 
My experience (limited to only a few women as I've been married most of my life) is that women can orgasm for extended periods and multiple times... so I've always thought it was important to keep at it until the job is done.

Maybe that is the difference between making love and having sex... one is an act focused on the pleasure of who your with, the other seems to be focused on getting your own satisfaction.

Never seen anyone cry... but I'm usually aiming towards getting them to the grinning rag doll state. :p
 
Some people become teary due to orgasm but it seems like that wasn't what this was.


Thank, you, sidious. From what I read, I couldn't tell either way.

It is possible that she was crying because of orgasm but I think she'd have told him that was the reason when he asked.

It's quite possible she wouldn't be able to articulate it. Intense hormonal shifts can do a lot to a person and leave that person at a loss to explain it, to the person's self and to others. To wit:

http://drruth.com/content/view/93/40/

As Kate Bush once sang, "I don't know why I'm crying."

And for fuck's sake, ladies, this is a rare thing experienced by a few women. What should astonish me--if I did not already know better--is how self-involved your responses to the concept have been, even down to the idea that the only way for a woman to reach orgasm is through direct clitoral stimulation. True for some, hardly for all. You don't cry during sex? Bully for you! I've already said it is a relatively rare phenomenon. But it is real. Google it (I suggest using "crying," "sex" and "orgasm" as keywords) and see how much stuff comes up. Unless, of course, you just want to keep smirking.
 
Thank you Jenee....I've been waiting patiently for a woman to back me up when I've posted this info as various times. This made my day.

I don't come in often, and by the time I get back to these threads, there's usually so much more happening that I forget a few things.

One more reason this board should have a "comment on post" option.

*And once again, I doubt the tears had anything to do with the quality of the sex; women who cry during sex usually do so as part of their orgasm.

:wtf: ... "as part of their orgasm"?!?!? Where can I get an orgasm so strong it brings me to tears?

I'm willing to try...

:lol:

Thank, you, sidious. From what I read, I couldn't tell either way.

It is possible that she was crying because of orgasm but I think she'd have told him that was the reason when he asked.

It's quite possible she wouldn't be able to articulate it. Intense hormonal shifts can do a lot to a person and leave that person at a loss to explain it, to the person's self and to others. To wit:

http://drruth.com/content/view/93/40/

As Kate Bush once sang, "I don't know why I'm crying."

And for fuck's sake, ladies, this is a rare thing experienced by a few women. What should astonish me--if I did not already know better--is how self-involved your responses to the concept have been, even down to the idea that the only way for a woman to reach orgasm is through direct clitoral stimulation. True for some, hardly for all. You don't cry during sex? Bully for you! I've already said it is a relatively rare phenomenon. But it is real. Google it (I suggest using "crying," "sex" and "orgasm" as keywords) and see how much stuff comes up. Unless, of course, you just want to keep smirking.

Dude. You're really reaching here. I seriously doubt the OP was able to bring this woman to orgasm as he didn't even know what was going on with her until he felt tears on his ... arm or shoulder or wherever.

Let it go. She was not crying because she orgasmed.
 
:rolleyes:

Jesus. Why do I even bother?

Anyway: read the link. That guy--the woman's husband--didn't know why she was crying, nor did the woman herself. He suspected she was feeling guilty about infidelity. Do the Google search and see how much puzzlement and outright worry this has occasioned in women who experience it.

No, you know what? Don't. Your mind is made up and no amount of rational argument or evidence will change it.
 
Okay, first off: I never said I was sure that was the reason. I said it was a possibility. That possibility was shot down as patently absurd by Cakes and Jenee. Now that I have shown that, no, it is not patently absurd, that it does happen and that when it does, it causes confusion in those who are ignorant of it, it's time to "let it go."

Again: Why bother? If this is the level of debate and discourse here, I see it is nothing more than a waste of time.

EDIT: Follow the links. It's seldom obvious, which is why so many letters are written to advice columnists asking questions.
 
My experience (limited to only a few women as I've been married most of my life) is that women can orgasm for extended periods and multiple times... so I've always thought it was important to keep at it until the job is done.

Maybe that is the difference between making love and having sex... one is an act focused on the pleasure of who your with, the other seems to be focused on getting your own satisfaction.

Never seen anyone cry... but I'm usually aiming towards getting them to the grinning rag doll state. :p

Yes it can go on for an extended period and it can be multiple and in succession...we are just lucky like that...don't need any or much recoup time. :techman:

Thank, you, sidious. From what I read, I couldn't tell either way.

It is possible that she was crying because of orgasm but I think she'd have told him that was the reason when he asked.

It's quite possible she wouldn't be able to articulate it. Intense hormonal shifts can do a lot to a person and leave that person at a loss to explain it, to the person's self and to others. To wit:

http://drruth.com/content/view/93/40/

As Kate Bush once sang, "I don't know why I'm crying."

And for fuck's sake, ladies, this is a rare thing experienced by a few women. What should astonish me--if I did not already know better--is how self-involved your responses to the concept have been, even down to the idea that the only way for a woman to reach orgasm is through direct clitoral stimulation. True for some, hardly for all. You don't cry during sex? Bully for you! I've already said it is a relatively rare phenomenon. But it is real. Google it (I suggest using "crying," "sex" and "orgasm" as keywords) and see how much stuff comes up. Unless, of course, you just want to keep smirking.

I understand it's a rare thing that's experienced by very few women...I understand that and that's not what I'm schooling you on.

I never said Clit stim was true for all, I said most women have a RELIABLE orgasm via clit stim and not intercourse. Understand what I'm sayin'? It's a SURE THING.

Actually I think you should do the google search and type in "how do women reach orgasm" or "how to make a woman cum" ...go ahead and read up there. You'll see that most women don't cum via intercourse...it can be done but like I said there is a sure fire way as well. Now you can take my advise or you can leave it. I'm just trying to shed some light and pass on the info. I was in the dark myself many years ago and no matter what I'll still be getting my rocks off. I'm not so sure you're wife or girlfriend will be though. LOL
 
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