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I'm in love with someone. I haven't exactly been on the down low about it. So either this person is dense and hasn't picked up on it or is purposely ignoring my advances. Either way, it really sucks. This someone also posts on the board.

Tell him/her and find out for certain!
 
^Yeah I'd go with that really since intentions are sometimes hard to communicate even in real life. I found out years later that a girl in junior high was reeeeaaallllyy into me but she thought I wasn't intrested since I didn't pick up on her signals, and when I learnt this is it was quite too late seeing as she's now married with a kid :lol:

My point being, some are just dense in picking up signals, me included. Just tell them.



Is it me?
 
My point being, some are just dense in picking up signals, me included. Just tell them.

Yeah, I've been ridiculously dense my whole life. I've been known to go on dates that I hadn't realized were dates, to not realize a guy was interested in me until he confessed he was in love with me, and I thought my husband hated me in high school. Turns out he was falling in love with me.

Some people are just bad at picking up on signs.

Edit: Unless this person is in love with TSQ. In which case she knows you're in love with her, and we all know you're in love with her, because everyone is. :D
 
^ Exactly. Why not just tell them out right and stop beating around the bush. For example, I consider flirting a form of social currency and tend to ignore it, even when serious. Basically if you want my attention your best bet is to be bold. It might not work on everyone but you won't know their true feelings until do more than "wave your arms around".

Oh and a word of advice... don't be creepy about it. As someone who has had his fair share of creepy "Love PM's" around here be sure to carefully choose your words. Gushing can appear as stalking... or be an indication of some form of madness. :rommie: Short, to the point and non-intrusive is best.
 
^ Even I am in love with her and I haven't touched a female since February 1989. :rommie:


Oh and to the gay guy "infatuated" with Lady Gaga... I swear that chick is a man. I don't know why but there is just something not quite right about her. She has a very masculine energy.
 
Edit: Unless this person is in love with TSQ. In which case she knows you're in love with her, and we all know you're in love with her, because everyone is. :D

How the hell can you be in love with someone online that you've not even met?
 
TSQ is not to be confused with TLS. Terrible things will happen if you do this.
 
TSQ is not to be confused with TLS. Terrible things will happen if you do this.

I figured out that TSQ was TheStrangeQuark. I'm not too familiar with her posts (I just found out she was a her!) so that explains why. But, yeah, I'm not going to confuse her with TLS. :lol:
 
It happens to some people.

Sorry, but it's not real. It's like falling in love with a penpal.

Until you meet in person, and establish a relationship of some kind, it's really not a romance. It's an online friendship which may or may not last when you meet IRL.
 
It happens to some people.

Sorry, but it's not real. It's like falling in love with a penpal.

Until you meet in person, and establish a relationship of some kind, it's really not a romance. It's an online friendship which may or may not last when you meet IRL.

Well these two may have met, I don't know. I'd guess they have (or would like to guess they have!). It's tough to qualify what real love is but love over the internet is... dicey at best.
 
I'm in love with someone. I haven't exactly been on the down low about it. So either this person is dense and hasn't picked up on it or is purposely ignoring my advances. Either way, it really sucks. This someone also posts on the board.

Dun dun dun! I want to see how this one ends up.

Wait a minute. Are you seriously telling me that you can't feel the sexual tension between us?
 
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