During my time in The Delta Quadrant, I have had to change the dynamics of both the professional and personal relationships between myself and the crew.
On one hand, I am their Captain, I have a duty to lead and protect them from everything we encounter in The Delta Quadrant and that means maintaining a distance from personal relationships with crewmembers, on the other hand I am the leader of a community and need to be approachable as well as understanding and at times an advisor.
Our first mission was seen as a short journey to The Badlands, nothing more, we didn't require the need of a Councillor or any other resource for maintaining crew morale and mental wellbeing.
There have been times when I have seemed lenient on crewmembers and some times when I have appeared, well some would say out of control, but all of the crewmembers are human, as am I and we all make mistakes, the important thing is that we learn from them, which my crew has shown they have done, time and again.
My interactions with The Equinox Crew were severe, they broke the basic foundations of Starfleet, even The Federation. They disregarded every principle I stand for and for that, I am unforgiving.
Captain Ransom saw the errors of his ways and did attempt to make amends towards the end, for this he would have been forgiven, not immediately granted, but I feel he would have continued to pay the price for his misguided actions.
So although I seem to be as someone said "a pushover mom" I simply chose to allow my crew the freedom to express their humanity.