But that's my point, the scene was trying to be sexual. They could have filmed a scene between Trip and Malcolm rubbing the gel onto one another and by using different camera angles and editing techniques it would have come across as a perfectly normal and professional thing. We see scenes between nearly naked men in dressing rooms on TV all the time but they aren't normally filmed in a sexual manner.Honestly, no, but not because the crew isn't professional. They wouldn't show that because for all the flipping out people do about the astonishing fact that there are differences between men and women and OMG!!! women have BOOBIES!!!!! it would have been a zillion times worse if there were even a HINT of same-sex touching or attraction. We're still that immature as a viewing audience.
The same could have been done in the scene between Trip and T'Pol, but the way it was put together was intended to cause arousal for a certain demographic. And that's why I have a problem with the scene, it tried to be two different things and ended up being pathetic. If they had filmed the scene to suggest professionalism then I would have been okay with it, if they had done a straight-up sex scene I would have been okay with it, but I felt utterly embarrassed by what we got.