I would add the words for you after the words he dies in your first sentence.
Thank you for pointing that out ICEB, I don’t know how the heck I missed that! If we are believe that TATV is more than just a flawed holoprogram from a lost TNG episode (which I don’t) then Trip did die for Archer. So to go after the EX of a best friend, right after he dies for you, would be the lowest of the lows and would make Archer a real snake and a skunk! If you think bout it, he had five years to “make a move” on T’Pol and he waits for Trip to die? (Like, what's that all about?) That is not Jonathan Archer, as I perceive the character. He is my favorite Captain in the franchise (Picard was the best Captain, but Archer was my favorite) and I just couldn’t reconcile him doing that to a friend like Trip, even if he is dead. As a fan of Archer’s character, I am grateful that it didn’t occur.
I definitely see Archer as a "bros over hoes" kinda guy (even though as a friend, he was a failure). Anyway, I think it would be okay for him to pursue T'Pol if he was madly in love with her, but I don't think that was the case. Just never got that vibe from him.
MACH5, I’m looking at this from my personal value and belief system as both a human and (most importantly) a guy. Going after a best friend’s EX (doesn’t matter if he’s alive or dead) is something I wouldn’t do and I wouldn’t look favorably upon someone who would. Maybe this is a generational difference between you and me. I do agree with you, however, that Archer didn’t send that “vibe” in TATV and hopefully the character is enough of a “stand-up guy” not to do something that low and violate the “Bro Code”.
Middleman. the way Archer was written I doubt if the "Bro" code would have any meaning for him.
I believe that Commodore is right: The Beebs were trying to give the impression that Archer and T-Pol became a couple later on.
As I say my fevered imagination also says that t-Pol would have vowed to remain faithful to Trip by never marrying and remaining celebite.
Penguin, I first watched TATV in December 2007 and a second time a few weeks later (only because I couldn’t believe the garbage I saw). I haven’t watched it since then and the chances of my watching it again are less than zero; so I’m going from memory here. I didn't see Archer as having any interest in T’Pol in that episode, nor did I see T’Pol having any interest in Archer, other than their friendship. IMO, it would be real stretch to come to the other conclusion. Please don’t take this personal, but I don't want to have a lengthy debate on this issue, because it's a matter of opinion and my opinion isn’t likely to change. I will say, however, that the only official continuation of the Enterprise story, the re-launch books, published by the owners of the Star Trek franchise, have rendered the discussion of what happened after TATV pointless. Events after TATV have already been determined and, from my POV, until something comes up on screen that contradicts the re-launch books, the re-launch stories stand. I know that there are differing points of view on canon status of these books, but that is my POV.