Probably coincides with the internet and social media becoming more prevalent.
That's something I have thought for a long time. Social media has become a toxic wasteland in general. Facebook, Twitter, etc.
Probably coincides with the internet and social media becoming more prevalent.
That's something I have thought for a long time. Social media has become a toxic wasteland in general. Facebook, Twitter, etc.
Cesspools all around. But also how easily information is accessed (factual or otherwise) that anyone can look up in seconds to argue their point (again, factual or otherwise) plays a large part in how viciously argumentative the human race has become over the past couple decades.
While that may be true with some of those people, quite a few of my encounters and debates have been heated with ism, ist, and phobic words thrown into the fray when it was unwarranted.
Even when you agree with just about everything the other person said, if there is just one detail you aren't in agreement with, no matter how slight, they will throw in those terms without hesitation... even after you say 'let's just agree to disagree on this'.
We all have unconscious biases that can blind us.
That may be true in some cases, but not everything has an unconscious bias.
Just assuming that of the other person and dismissing what they say is not a healthy forum for a debate.
That's not what psychological research indicates.
You can't put much faith in shrinks. They'll say anything to keep themselves in business and their pockets filled. They are about as trustworthy as snake oil salesman.
You can't put much faith in shrinks. They'll say anything to keep themselves in business and their pockets filled. They are about as trustworthy as snake oil salesman.
Well, now you're setting up a rhetorical paradigm where it's impossible to objectively research anyone's behavior. That's just not a reasonable argument.
I know, it's not a fun conclusion.
While I agree that psychology does exist and is important to people, not everything can be broken down into something else that has nothing to do with the original subject.
Sometimes what you see in front of you IS what you see in front of you.
Example: I cannot tell you how many times I have seen drivers in parking lots go the opposite direction of arrows because they either are not paying attention, don't care, or are just reckless because I have lost count years ago. Or drivers who turn their blinkers on (on the RARE occasion they actually bother to turn it on) to go right, but go left instead, and vice versa. I have seen these things and more every single day I am on the road. This is not hyperbole... quite literally every single day. I fear for my nephew and niece who have recently received their licenses because of all the yahoos out there on the road. I have told them to be extra careful, especially at red lights because people take them every single day.
With all these observations, my conclusion is this: there are a LOT of bad drivers out on the road here. There is no bias in this. It's a simple conclusion based on nearly 30 years of driving experience in Miami and South Florida in general.
Not everything has an unconscious bias simply because you don't like the conclusion that was drawn. Just assuming that of someone is basically telling them what see and experience doesn't matter. And no one has the right to tell them their experiences didn't exist or are incorrect.
I know, it's not a fun conclusion. But I have had my share of experiences with them, as well as others in my family and close friends. I'm not saying all psychologists are bad, but there's damned few who really DO care about their patients and are not concerned with filling their wallets.
I can't ignore my experiences based on some papers from some distant office.
But now you're setting up a rhetorical paradigm where bad anecdotal experiences can justify prejudice and where objective data can ever overrule subjective personal experience.
Dude, I just said I have seen AND experienced bad driving every single day I am on the road. For YEARS! Obviously, that means there are bad drivers in big numbers down here.
That is not prejudice! That is stating a fact!
And that's fine as far as that goes. But you're not just talking about bad drivers, are you? You're setting up a rhetorical paradigm for how subjective experience is a superior way to evaluate the world than objective data.
Absolutely. I'm fine with having fun trivial debates about make believe stuff, but nothing will make me punch out of a discussion faster than personal attacks or a stranger on the internet assuming things about me that they don't have enough information to know. That's crossing a line.I don't think there's anything wrong with defending a favorite show or movie against criticisms, or giving criticism about a show or movie. It's when people turn criticisms into personal attacks or assuming political agendas of the person that it becomes a problem.
Yes. I like ST09 more than I dislike it, but I quickly tire of fans who make liking or disliking a certain incarnation of Trek their big litmus test of whether or not someone is a "true" fan.Back during the Reboot Wars of 2009, I got very weary of hearing that all "true" fans were obliged to hate the new movie and that only callow, pew-pew-happy newbies could possibly find any merit in it.
I have 100% seen this phenomenon in action.That said, some are far too defensive over certain ST productions; take Star Trek: the Motion Picture: I cannot begin to tell you how often some of its strongest supporters end up taking criticism of the film personally, as if any negative observation is a comment on the person.
I've been on the TrekBBS since February of 2005, and I can personally attest that that's not true. Hell, I'd wager that anyone who remembers when James Dixon posted regularly here got into it with him at least once, and that guy never gave any ground.This is the thing with people today. Remember forums back in like 2000 up to 2010? People usually got along, and there were oocasionally minor arguments that were quickly settled.
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