I've found the idea of hating victims of the Borg somewhat forced at times, though I do understand humans are irrational beings especially when dealing with traumatic loss. And maybe it's the same thing, just less directly stated, but I always thought, were I in the situation of a survivor of Locutus/Wolf 359, it wouldn't be Picard having been enslaved and forced to murder his comrades that would make me hate him. It would be that he survived, while thousands of others died. That somehow, despite the fact that anyone else would have marked Picard as basically dead when he was assimilated, that Enterprise and its crew, and its then-captain, Riker, somehow managed to destroy that ship and rescue Picard, and yet my loved one(s) couldn't be saved. Not that that would be rational either, but less hating someone for being a fellow victim, but whose special status exempted them from so many others' fate.