Which is part of why Jellico never rubbed me the wrong way the way he sometimes is described. He was a good leader and his expectations followed with it. Picard likewise has a certain approach that inspires others to fall in line, rather than automatically demanding.I think it comes down to expectations with that whole Jellico style vs. Picard style. Jellico was clearly competent and got results. His ship ran like clockwork. His crew a representation of his own strengths and abilities. He is the type of captain that can make a crew just as damn good as he is. The other side of that is, those under him will only shine when they display his traits and abilities. They develop themselves to be more like him and how he does things. Perfectly okay if that works for you. Picard nurtures individuals and allows people to grow and develop their personal strengths, in a system of communication and often times compromise. I don't think one is necessarily better than the other, but I'd much rather work for Picard rather than Jellico. One is a really effective boss that gets the exact job done the way they wants it, whereas the other is a great leader that shows you the way to get any job done.
I have worked for both, and aspire to lead with elements of both.
This was not lost on me, though I doubt I could put such a phrase to it at the time. Attempting to rewatch from Season 3 forward it definitely stands out, and the interactions are weirdly off putting.I likely have more fondness for TNG than you do, but the thing that really grabs me when watching it now? The self-righteousness of it all. Picard and the gang were really nothing more than Federation missionaries, out to spread the good word.