“REJOINED”
“Nothing can possibly go wrong...KHAAAAAAAAN it?!”
I’ve been quite vocal in my dislike of Star Trek’s romance of the week formula, something that’s been relentlessly thrown at us for decades, in spite of the fact that 90% of the time it fails—MIS-ER-ABLY! I realise now that part of the problem is that, despite the progressive and generally intelligent nature of the franchise, the Star Trek writers have always tended to have a rather immature understanding of what constitutes “love”. If the show was an adolescent-themed soap opera then I could understand it; a character falls head over heels then this wonderful “love affair” is portrayed as the most important thing ever and they’re willing to sacrifice everything for their newfound soulmate. I call BS. That isn’t love. It’s infatuation.
What generally happens in Trek’s romance of the week episodes is that a character meets someone with whom they have or develop an attraction, their brain releases certain chemicals and they get horny and infatuated. At this point I’m fed up with supposedly adult Star Trek characters behaving like obsessive teenagers who fall in love every few months with “the one” (an especially egregious example was last season’s “Meridian”: “But he reeeeeally is the one, Benjamin! So I’m gonna throw in my career, my home, family and friends just to beeeeee with him, otherwise my life isn’t worth living!”). I dunno when I became such a cynic, but I guess I have a much more grounded view of romance these days. The early stages of a relationship are tinged with fantasy, and are largely characterised by what they call “New Relationship Energy” (defined as the “state of mind experienced at the beginning of sexual and romantic relationships, typically involving heightened emotional and sexual feelings and excitement”). It doesn’t last! Pretty soon, we start to see the actual person we’re now with, free of idealistic fantasies and both parties projecting an idealised version of who they are. What happens after that—well,
that is love; when you see the other person as they actually are, warts and all, and decide that you want to share your life with them.
My point is it was about time that Star Trek grew up when it came to its depiction of relationships. Miles and Keiko were a good start, with O’Brien being Trek’s first married regular character. Even better are Sisko and Kasidy, whose natural, mature chemistry simply sparkles in every scene. I appreciated that, following some dire second and third season romance-of-the weeks, the DS9 writers were finally committed to showing ongoing relationships that develop at a natural pace and without making the characters seem like impetuous, horn-dog teens.
And along comes “Rejoined”, which marvellously transcends the limitations of the romance of the week formula. This is one of the most beautiful, powerful and affecting love stories Trek has ever done because it isn’t just about one character getting the hots for another and vainly expecting the audience to be on the edge of their seats about it. It’s a story about genuine love; a love that survives beyond a single lifetime. The fact it happens to be between two female characters (or female bodies, at least) is completely irrelevant to its success. It’s a touching, sensitively written tale about former spouses whose paths again cross decades or perhaps centuries later, and their meeting rekindles the bond they previously shared. It’s like meeting up with an ex and realising that you’re still the same people, with the same spark and the same feelings for each other, but knowing that things have changed so much it’s impossible to go back to what you had.
As a gay guy growing up in the Nineties, this episode meant a heck of a lot to me. Back then, there was virtually no LGBT representation on TV or film unless it was crude stereotype or camp comic relief—and certainly nothing on the otherwise progressive Trek. It was a different world in many respects. I wasn’t ready to deal with that part of my nature because it left me feeling very alone, scared and self-hating. I was convinced if anyone found out it would be the end of the world and I actually thought there was something very wrong with me, and that I’d be disowned by family and friends if they ever found out. Along with a brief scene in “Rules of Acquisition”, however, “Rejoined” made a bold and quietly ground-breaking statement by making the matter of same sex attraction a...
complete non-issue! It’s not even talked about and the implication is that love is love and isn’t strictly defined by sex. That was about as bold as Star Trek would get in terms of sexuality; that, and its willingness to show Trek’s first same sex kiss. While girl on girl smooching could sometimes be somewhat salaciously and cynically by TV and filmmakers (including, arguably, DS9 itself in the seventh season stinker “The Emperor’s New Cloak”) the fact is it’s simply a natural part of this story and the fact it’s treated no differently to, say, Dax kissing Deral, is important. In fact, Dax and Lenara have far more chemistry than Dax and Deral ever did—so ironically, it was the
latter that felt forced and unnatural.
The Trill “Reassociation” taboo is clearly an allegory for the way gay people have been viewed and treated by society, and, unfortunately, often still are. It’s a neat parallel that works because it’s subtle and never explicitly spelt out, which might have rendered the episode a tad heavy-handed. In that respect, it’s an infinitely more successful episode than TNG’s well-meaning but woefully misconceived “The Outcast”.
Terry Farrell gives her finest performance of the series, and Suzanna Thompson is similarly excellent as Lenara. Avery Brooks continues to prove himself one of the show’s top directors (if not my favourite, I have to say) and also gives a tremendous performance in the Dax/Sisko scene in his office, which definitely must rank in my top ten moments of the entire series. It’s just wonderfully executed, and the relationship feels genuine, from the awkward, tentative initial interaction at the reception to the pained final scene between the couple. Lenara’s brother and her disapproving older colleague are both quite well characterised and played, and Michael Eddington even pops up...well, for no discernible reason. The sub-plot is a bit of a technobabble bore; the kind of limp “jeopardy” B-plot TNG would habitually pair with a character driven A-plot. But it serves its purpose and the focus is firmly on character. Overall, a powerful and meaningful episode and one of the best genuine love stories Trek ever did tell.
Rating: 9