Here, where most people can actually back up their issues with DSC with legitimate examples (and can accept it when people point out similar flaws in the other shows), there's much less of that,* but I suspect that the carryover from Facebook and such makes people more defensive than they might otherwise be.
For me the effect has multiple folds. One is the sheer amount of anger directed at Abrams, so much so that the Abrams' films pretty much were treated as not Trek across multiple sites I was on. So, that sets a sour tone for me with regarding any new Trek. In essence, it has to earn the privilege of being called "Star Trek" rather than just being Star Trek and worth discussing, the good, the bad and everything in between.
The second part is common complains regarding Discovery that I feel are already a part of Star Trek, i.e. darker tones, war stories, humans reacting badly. To me it is hard to get upset at a Trek show for doing Trek things.
Finally, I am prone to hyperbole so a lot of the times in discussion I overreact which doesn't read well in text form. In person I'm pretty hilarious

Overall, it comes down to the fact that for me the Trek I like has always been a fight with friends. I liked TOS throughout middle and high school and my friends preferred TNG/DS/VOY. I liked ST 09 and was told that it wasn't real Trek. I like Discovery and it's an abomination. It grows rather reputative being told what you like is not real Trek.
That's why I can't take pronouns seriously.That one in general makes me laugh (not for Star Trek specifically but in general). I remember when I first heard that the PS4 was getting a Pro version and the first thing I thought was "So does that make the base model the N00b variant in gamer parlance? Or the PS4 Amateur?".![]()