Devil's advocate:
It's a movie fundamentally about separating Superman from humanity, showing us how superior and above ordinary people he is, always would have been, and always will be by virtue of his birth. About turning him into an otherworldly messiah, rather than the best of US.
Well that did seem to directly be the intention with The Dark Knight, that Batman was, or rather became, better that what we deserved, instead what we needed.
I think the previous versions also showed Superman as being pretty better and very different from the city-dwellers, albeit also more mutually charmed, so the different take on the Kents seems the big difference.
Physical strength, the ability to dominate your enemy, is the only true virtue. Superman doesn't win because of his morals, because of his dedication, because of he selflessness. He doesn't win because he's righteous, or virtuous. He wins because he's physically more capable than Zod, beats him into submission and then murders him. Might AS right. It's utterly, distressingly authoritarian.
In the previous movie version he wins because of cunning as well as reading Luthor and Zod particularly well to trick them.