Bit of a bump here, but I'm watching through VOY again while stuck in the house. By christ he's irritating in Season 1/2. He's creepy, arrogant and completely pointless.
Oh, he can cook? Because that's such a rare talent.
The problem with Neelix is a wider one; the more there was in the series bible, the less interesting the characters end up; the less, the more room the actors have to create the role.
I've wrote about this a few times. In my opinion, "Neelix" was a product of bad casting. I don't think Ethan Phillips has a lot of range as an actor (I've seen him in guest parts on other shows pre and post Voyager ). He generally comes off the same way no matter what character he's playing. I can only assume he got the role of Neelix because he had the "look" they were after, and could stand in front of a camera and say his lines.
A better actor could have brought so much more to the character. I remember watching a documentary on the "Little House" TV series. Kathering MacGregor who played Harriet Oleson said that after she got the part, she wrote pages and pages of "back story" for her character... Where she grew up, her family, how she met her husband, how she got to Walnut Grove. She got into character, and she got into THE character. Neelix needed an actor who could bring something to what should have beena great character.
Just watch Neelix in his scenes. He has no chemistry with Kes, no chemistry with Tuvok, and those scenes where he was supposedly jealous of Tom's affections for Kes just don't work. He was terrible in "Jetrel" (Anything with "slurring James" Sloyan already has issues). The character just had no chemistry.
So, I disagree that "Neelix" was obnoxious. I think he was played obnoxious (on purpose or not), by a sub-par actor that lacked chemistry with all of his co-stars, and brought nothing to a part that could have shined...
needed to shine for the good of the whole show.
"Neelix" reminds me ot the old "Lost in Space" TV show. Most of the 2nd and 3rd season episodes are really bad... but I watch it sometimes. I find myself mentally scraping off the obnoxious stupidity, the bad writing, the bad acting, and latching onto the little underlying thread of whatever it is that is underneath. Then I pretend it's a good as it
could have been. This is what one does whe one watches "Neelix".