Yeah, I couldn't help but think of that word whenever I heard the name. Incidentally, has anyone read any of the "Space Team" books?
And another. It could be argued that she would be less pained by sexual references than she would be emotional ones. It would be consistent with the Seven we know, and Bajay-jay would know that wasn't even the "sore-point", as it were.
The betrayal of the emotional intimacy, the close relationship, would be a bigger issue. Sex—well, we saw very early on in Voyager that was simply not an issue that intimidated her, not as much as relationships.