Why does it automatically have to be considered "taken away"?
Why can't it be that one's Head-canon is being Embellished and Added To?
Again, I really don't understand why for some folks it always seems to have to be the Negative instead of the Positive.
What kind of miserable lives do some people create for themselves?
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Negativity creates drama. And drama creates activity and conflict, which many people apparently find entertaining in a weird but undeniable way. Positivity doesn't create that intrigue.
So, whether they recognize it or not, many people find it more interesting to be negative. Not my thing....but it's undeniable that others are wired this way.
A lot of people on boards like this try to justify it or define it as simply "having refined tastes" or "higher expectations." But at the end of the day to me it always just strikes me as a need to be negative and have that drama.