Now if it's a genuine sexist remark then yes it ought to be dealt with, but if it's a genuine opinion of a character in a movie? Fair game.
Honestly, if it's genuine sexism, we're best off just ignoring it. The genuine trolls feed off of our attention.
The struggle I am running up against is the fact that Luke and Anakin are actually very similar to Rey in many respects, with Rey actually going through more than Luke in her early life. So, the acceptance of Luke and the rejection of Rey is quite strange to me.
IMO, what tips Rey into Mary Sue territory (and this is something that I didn't pick up on until multiple rewatches) is the number of skills stacked on top of her. She's a savant with the Force. Okay, sure, makes sense given the sometimes vague and plot-convenient ways in which the Force works. She's a great pilot. Okay, makes sense given that she's a main character in a
Star Wars movie. And then, on top of that, she's also better than Han Solo at repairing the Falcon. And she can understand both BB8 and Chewie. And she's a good enough scavenger that she survived for years as an orphan on Jakku without, y'know, starving to death. Each of these skills in isolation can be justified. But putting them all together seems a bit excessive for someone who is basically a beginner character.
Comparatively, Anakin started out as a great pilot and a decent mechanic but didn't become proficient with a lightsaber until 10 years of training with Obi-wan. Luke, despite his plucky attitude, seemed to get underfoot as much as anything for most of
A New Hope. His piloting skills didn't even come into play until the end of the movie. Even in
The Empire Strikes Back, he'd only developed a little telekinesis. And even after days (weeks? months?) of training under Yoda, his first duel with Darth Vader ended with him getting mutilated and nearly killed.
The good news is that Daisy Ridley has enough charisma to make Rey a very entertaining character to watch. And even if Rey is over-skilled, that doesn't mean that her emotional journey won't be compelling.
Unfortunately, while I found Rey to be a much more interesting and nuanced character in
The Last Jedi, especially in the cave scene, I'm very worried about Abrams' ability to stick the landing.
I like to think that whole Star Wars saga is Anakin’s story. Not Luke’s
Actually, from a larger, geopolitical perspective, the original 6 saga films are the story of Palpatine. We start with his humble beginnings as Senator from Naboo, then see him manipulate his way into Supreme Chancellor and eventually Emperor. Even in the films where he doesn't appear much, the Empire, his creation, looms over everything. The saga ends with the fall of his Empire and his death at the hands of his own apprentice. Palpatine and the rise and fall of his Empire is one of the few constants throughout the entire original 6 films. Part of why the sequel trilogy feels so tacked on, IMO, is because there's no transition from the New Republic to the First Order and no on-screen explanation for how this happened.
Maybe I missed something with TFA but I didn't see nearly as much complaint as I did with TLJ.
While
The Force Awakens had its share of detractors, I would agree that things became a lot more heated and controversial with
The Last Jedi. I think part of the issue is that we started with 2 factions-- those who enjoyed
The Force Awakens as a return to "proper"
Star Wars and those who couldn't stand Abrams' hacky writing & mystery boxes. Once
The Last Jedi came out, we had 3 factions-- those who liked it, those who liked the classic feel of
TFA but felt that
TLJ completely destroyed Luke's hero status, and those who hated
TFA to begin with and felt vindicated by all the new haters joining the fold. (Actually, there's also a 4th faction-- people who liked
TLJ because it fixed or ignored most of the problems with
TFA, but I think that may just be me. Can I be a faction if I'm only one person?)
But outside of recent threads and videos, it didn't really seem like Rey herself was the source of much controversy. Certainly not compared to Luke or the directors.