Apparently, "Discovery" should have had a great deal more of comedy and less angst.
You still don't get it. Discovery didn't need comedy, it needed a sense of adventure and optimism that has been prevalent throughout the franchise. Instead we get marble-mouthed Klingons who are about as interesting chewing on cardboard. We get a Federation who is every bit as "evil" as the Klingons. I guess there are good people on both sides?
I think it is silly to try an pigeon-hole people who don't like the show as racists and misogynists. Sometimes, things simply don't work for people for reasons completely independent of them.
Maybe you should try to point out why we are wrong based on the points we are making? Instead of just crying foul because someone doesn't like something you do...