So if your mom dies tomorrow she's going to hell and you think this system is fine?
That's awful.
Please don't be mean about my Mother. I love her.
She wasn't trying to use her to "score points" against you. She was using a personal example that you brought up to try and get you to think outside your preconceptions and empathize with others whom your religious beliefs have casually condemned to Hell for no crime other than non-belief. Some people are unfortunately incapable of empathy until a situation directly affects them; see Dick Cheney and how his position on same-sex marriage evolved once his daughter, an openly gay woman, got married to her partner.I shouldn't have introduced my Mother's experience into the forum. It was something personal but our family is raw at the loss of my Brother and it was just something spiritual or a brain reaction that happened to her. I thought it meant something in relation to what Jason was talking about regards the afterlife. It is my fault for introducing her into this. That being said I have my beliefs and sacrificing them is not going to change the way I believe things are. Calling one to task about it achieves.. nothing.
I do pray for my Mother as a non-believer, she would mock me for it, but I do anyway. I'm just astounded that someone would use her to score points against me in an argument.
Doesn't it bother you that an all-knowing God who is privy to all the details of a person's life could not understand and sympathize with the reasons they personally didn't have faith and see fit to forgive them their ignorance? Doesn't it bother you that in knowing why one has decided to be a non-believer, God would still be so petty and vindictive as to condemn that person to eternal suffering and torment for no other crime than simply lacking sufficient evidence or motivation to believe in Him? Is God so small that the ignorance of one disbeliever aggrieves Him so much He would banish them to infinite mental and physical torture? If so, why is that God worthy of my worship? A God like that is nothing more than a tyrannical bully who thrives on inspiring fear and lacks any trace of compassion and forgiveness. I would rather burn in Hell than choose to live my life praying to such an ugly and malignant God.