Or...getting out of his shadow could help her to grow.
No. No. That just plays into sexist assumptions, as I've explained time and time again. The whole blamed point is that a woman shouldn't need a man to get out of her way before she can "grow" on her own. The very idea is condescending.
I mean, for Pete's sake, she's clear on the other side of the continent. She's already out of his shadow.