Wow you're quick to judge and categorize people...

Something like that can happen completely subconsciously, i.e. the parent has a fear of horses, however is careful not to voice or overly show that fear in front of his/her child. Yet when they meet a horse the parent might, subconsciously tense up a bit, shrink just the tiniest bit back when the horse makes a loud sound etc. S/he does not consciously pass down fears to the child but children, being very perceptive of such things, picks up on those involuntary signals and might develop a fear of horses from it themselves.
Parents, even the best ones make heaps of mistakes when rising their children and are not
necessarily bad people for it.
You'd be surprised... there are all sorts of people in this world (not saying that it's the norm, just saying that it can happen and that I personally know one woman who idealizes 1950s culture to the point were she acts like Chapel to Spock towards men)
What I meant with the "supposedly normal situation" was that in most human cultures patriarchy was/is the norm. The society of Angel One was not that different form say 1950s western Civilisation (albeit reversed) when it came to gender roles. There are places on Earth, today, where women are treated like that.