Ok, so... this is largely a generationally based complaint. It seems to be older people who agree with me and younger people who disagree.
Just to preface where I'm coming from, I'm an old queer (47), I was in LGBT culture in the Bay Area in the 90s, and I remember how big a deal the Jadzia Dax kiss was.
I'm really not happy with how Disco - which is supposedly the most LGBT-friendly Trek - handles LGBT issues. It's a common complaint though that I have with how a *lot* of media, in the last few years, has handled LGBT issues: the LGBT characters who hang out in a small clique together like it's the cool kids' lunch table, and don't interact with the rest of anyone else! This is actually weirdly alienating. I have had this problem with the way so much media seems to handle LGBT characters recently. Could we please at least have one of the LGBT characters leave the gayborhood and make some other friends, too? One of the reasons I love Trek is because I want to see what the world looks like when various bigotries and phobias have been SOLVED and humanity has gotten PAST that stuff. It's not the 1950s let alone the 1980s. LGBT people should be able to interact with the rest of the crew and to me, it's a really bad look to set them apart as their own thing and cluster them all together. Do they have to all (or mostly) hang out in/work in the same department? That's weird.
Also, the "instant family" thing with Culber, Stamets, and Adira - I realize this is very sweet and aspirational but, could they please have built that up for a while? Like, over the course of a season or something?
I feel like I want to be *shown* that the world Trek describes, is a different world in which we don't have the problems of today.
I get that a lot of people will disagree with me, but... as an LGBT person, what I want from a show is to watch it and feel more normal. Like I could get along just fine in that world and it wouldn't be a big deal! I don't feel "normal" when I watch LGBT identities framed the way Discovery frames them, I feel... bizarrely alienated.
Like... the LGBT characters are all great characters, but... could the writers have please mixed this up a bit and not made all the LGBT characters into one clique??