Fair enough.
I'm not a fan of ENT and I'm "in the middle" on the Kelvin Films. So that effectively made DSC the first new Star Trek I was an outright fan of in close to two decades. So I know what you're saying.
Okay. And just to admit everything, I loathe the nuTrek movies (other than one line, which was clever and sufficiently Spockian that I can easily imagine Nimoy saying it if it had ever been part of the dialogue of a TOS episode or movie). If it helps, I'm not much of a fan of nuWho, either. I gave up on Doctor Who after Capaldi's second season - not because I didn't like Capaldi, but because the writing was ridiculously dumbed-down, and the showrunner had a pathological case of Clara-Is-Perfect. I never went back after Capaldi quit.
I get lectured on "Classic Who's special effects are boring, the aliens are cheesy, I can't stand Adric, etc. etc. etc." as though those are sufficient reasons for me to have the same opinion they do - and chances are that they've never seen a tenth as much of Classic Who as I have.
Please keep in mind that many of the TOS-VOY detractors haven't actually watched much of it, or even any. I've at least seen most of Enterprise, about half the first season of DiscoTrek, and stuck it out for part of Picard before giving up on both those latter ones. Due to Enterprise being shown on Fridays here (several episodes that cycle several times through the afternoon and evening), I've come to tolerate it, though I still don't like how it retcons some of the basic things that were established in TOS. I've offered no opinions at all regarding Lower Decks other than "tried it, not my cup of tea, cranberry with honey, hot".
I don't expect much of modern Trek these days. Honestly, I get more enjoyment from fanfic and some of my favorite older novels (and anything
Greg Cox writes; he's the only Trek author whose books I still buy, as I know the story will be good and will entertain me).
It's just that I've spent three-plus years dealing with some relentless, unpleasant people myself, who I've seen are using double-standards. It gets to you after a while. But, even there, I still separate those who are just critical of the show from those who outright hate it. And I did describe earlier in the thread what I think of as the difference between "don't like it" and "hate it", where even people who aren't fans of DSC were agreeing with me about it.
One can be critical of something, not like it, and hate it simultaneously, without also being a bigot or unreasonable like the "fandom menace" you've described.
It isn't really that different from when VOY was the current series. Especially when dealing with the TNG/DS9 Brigade that I just mentioned a few posts earlier. I've been around here practically since the board opened up. So, even though I wasn't a regular in that particular forum, I did see some of the threads, and was familiar with the notoriety there.
I've seen a lot of Voyager-bashing over the years. Some of the criticisms are valid. That's why I gravitate to fanfic that doesn't use the reset button, and actions can have permanent consequences.
But some of the criticisms are completely unreasonable, in my view. I see Voyager as a show with some great character arcs that unfold throughout the entire seven-year run. Yes, it's silly about how they always had torpedoes and shuttles to spare, and the ship usually looked spotless far too soon after a major battle. Yes, Chakotay was godawful boring, and my inner anthropologist cringes at how he's presented.
But Tom Paris' story is a very long redemption arc, and Voyager's best success story (besides getting home). Several other characters were put through the wringer and came out the other end with much happier lives, but it didn't happen in one episode. It took
years.
One question, though: You say you've been around here since the board opened up. Your join date says 2011. That's several years after I joined, so you must have either lurked for a very long time, or '2011' must be a typo.