Yes. They're trying to have it both ways and they can't.
Yes, they can.
No. They can't.
Not necessarily. If thay had "won", this thread wouldn't be here.
Excactly. NuSpock wasn't even close to Original Spock as far as his personality and emotions. Sure, Spock smiled in "The Cage". And he also had a smattering of emotion in "WNMHGB". But he was still Vulcan. And he still had control over his emotions. It was disheartening to watch NuSpock lose control of his emotions so often. As a child, it was somewhat understandable. But as an adult, not so much. They could have done much better.
Did young TOS Spock watch his mother and planet die in front of him?
Give that guy a cookie!!!!! That is precicesly my point! Because NuSpock had to endure such radically different circumstances in his alternate universe, he is pretty much a completely different person both physically and emotionally as compared to his Original Universe counterpart. If young TOS Spock were to cross over to the Abramsverse, he surely wouldn't recognize his NuTrek doppelganger(sp?). They probably wouldn't even get along well with each other.
I wouldn't go that far. But yeah, they're taking the character in a different direction. And that's what you don't like?