Don't get me wrong -- I was never questioning your enthusiasm for the idea, just your rationalization.I think I feel good putting my money on the chances of there being another planet, lots of other planets, with life and even intelligent life on it.
Personally I can take or leave the notion of extraterrestrial civilization. If it doesn't exist then fine, and if it does we'll likely never interact with it.
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As certain as I am that there's life on other planets I am also certain that we'll never interact with it. That's a lot to say because our species has accomplished a lot in just the last 200 years or so as far as technological and scientific advancement and who knows what we'd accomplish in 1,000 years so long as we don't manage to destroy ourselves. I just think the notion of bending space to, essentially, move at FTL speeds to get to other star-systems in any kind of meaningful time is very, very, very difficult.
It may be technologically possible, in theory, but would probably require a hell of a lot to achieve.
Overall, I don't think we'll interact "face to face" with an alien species for millennia.
Though we may be able to discover/observe a habitable/ed world within decades.