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What's the meaning of this?

Last week, my family and I went to do some shopping to find my brand new suit for funeral coming tomorrow morning, I informed them that I wish to speak with my friends about my great-grandmother.

So I went to Andy's restaurant to see this female friend of mine who's working there. She ran so awfully happy and ask me that question, she's very curious if I will get to having the cochlear implants surgery in the coming year, I told her that it's not going to happening, because of my health insurance is not going to pay all this coverage. How did she feeling about that? She was completely crushed to hear this news. Almost as if she's holding her tears back. I don't understand why she wants me to having this surgery so badly, but ok?

Anyhow, I broke the news to her that there's death in my family. All of sudden, she wants to make sure that I'm doing all right without doing anything crazy despite my history in the past. I told her that I refused to eat all that foods because it will upset my stomach when it comes to shed my tears.

She didn't like the answer when I refused to take all that foods, so she made me to eating all that foods! She wasn't going anywhere until I'm eating that foods. So what's the meaning of this? She's acting like my wife all of sudden at the moment, because she warned me that if I don't eat that foods, I would be sick.

Is it possible that we're on the road to having the relationship in the future?

(Just to letting you know that I'm black and she's white. Just want to know what's the meaning of our relationship.)
 
What does her being black have to do with anything?

It just sounds like she cares about you and wants you to be okay. Take things slow and see where it goes. You at least have someone who cares about you, so take that for what it is.
 
You had a death in the family, and this girl is making you eat food? I'm not really sure I see how you get from point A to point B.
 
Well, I have a history of attempting to take my own life in the past. That's why she was making sure that I don't do anything crazy. Thanks to her, I didn't take my own life this year.
 
I see...

Without knowing more about her, I really can't tell ya what her intentions are. Obviously she cares about you, but you would know better than us.
 
She definitely has a strong nurturing instict - that's why she was so adamant about getting you to eat.
I suspect that were it a romantic interest, she might have listened to you better.

But who knows? You won't find the answer from us, Admiral. Strong are we in the ways of the Force...but not that strong. :)

Do you like her?
 
She definitely has a strong nurturing instict - that's why she was so adamant about getting you to eat.
I suspect that were it a romantic interest, she might have listened to you better.

But who knows? You won't find the answer from us, Admiral. Strong are we in the ways of the Force...but not that strong. :)

Do you like her?

To answer your question. God, YES! I like her a lot.
 
It sounds to me the person wishes to take care of you with comfort. Food generally relaxes and person and gives them a sense of completion and relaxing. She may just wish to make you feel relaxed. No further thoughts to you just to make you feel better.

You should accept the food, you don't have to eat it, you could dispose of it later if it agitates your stomach.

The other person will feel much better knowing she in a small way has made you feel better.

The colour of a persons skin does not come into play when kindness is offered.
 
She definitely has a strong nurturing instict - that's why she was so adamant about getting you to eat.
I suspect that were it a romantic interest, she might have listened to you better.

But who knows? You won't find the answer from us, Admiral. Strong are we in the ways of the Force...but not that strong. :)

Do you like her?

To answer your question. God, YES! I like her a lot.
Excellent! Now, you must begin your dance. Whatever it may be. Showing up as you did, is part of it. Perhaps writing a brief note, about what you like about her. Not about you. Keep it very brief. Even just a few lines. Or ask her out point blank. Take the adventure.
You can't go wrong, my friend. Even if you get shot down in flames, as happens most of the time. We are like X-Wing fighters on the Death Star run. Don't hold it inside. Even if you are rejected, it will come back to you eventually. Have fun with it. A worthy science experiment, Doctor.
 
A lot of people and cultures associate food with comfort(she isn't perhaps Italian is she:lol:). During times of stress or sadness they turn to food as a way to ease themselves.
 
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