I've never played the Wing Commander games, so when you said you wanted a game like them, I thought you just meant a starfighter game set in the Star Trek universe.
That's just what I said, but I also said that I wanted the same gameplay/set up as seen in Wing Commander and Starlancer, perhaps one worked by Chris and Erin Roberts, the creators of both.

I think it was only much later when I had a better computer that I was able to leverage it for the maximum experience.