Older women are better but younger women don't even understand how forgiving and tolerant they are, however ugly women try harder, I mean a man is amazed when a truely beautiful women agrees to sleep with him that she can just lay their like a sack of sweet potatoes and it's still a huge victory for him, but ugly girls, they really really have to go to town to be memorable.
But here's the worst gem, women talk to each other about everything. So if you're trapped in a tin can with 70ish women, good or bad you're going to pick up a reputation quick for being good at stuff or bad at stuff that as a commodity on the dating circuit the market will dictate your value...
So when Tom and Harry came as a pair, Harry's price was artificially inflated by Toms charm and hotness, so honestly you can bet that one person from any pairing of women, bait and switch, who drew the short straw gambling they'd get some Tom, when they wound up with Harry would mostly be finding herself with cramps or a head ache while Kim is suggesting a night cap.
After Tom got married, who was Harry's new wing man?
Neelix?
Harry inflated Neelix's value?
But it was proved in Seinfeld that if you have been with a beautiful woman already, that the door is open, and the beautiful people will still be welcoming to you... So all the females on voyager must have assumed that what ever Kes saw in him that was endearing might also be of some compatible value to them.
So, even Neelix inflates Harrys value as a playboy?
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I've been attracted to men over 20 years older than me - true, they're actors, not anyone I've met in real life, but still. (Or over 30 years older 
if you count their actual age now, rather than how old they were when they were when they played the role. )
I was just making a jape.