I didn't know where to post this so putting it here. If it has to move kind mod people you can move this.
What if aliens were in our solar system studying the other planets and then they meet our planet and find us. They don't come with any motive or any kind of agenda they just are there and are practical in their nature.
They are here to study the solar system and they find Earth but they don't make any demands of us, they don't even try to go out of their way to make friends but they do visit. Instead they act in a very practical way say hello then fly off back to wherever they are going to go next.
Would that be a different kind of encounter to have and would that impact on us much? They don't even bother to land or stake out a place here. They say hi and leave.
Any proof of alien life would impact us massively. Simply knowing they exist forces people to re-evaluate their entire worldview. And many, many would be fully obsessed with pushing that newfound frontier further, establishing direct contact, learning who they are, where they're from, what they can do, what they can teach us. This quest would very suddenly take up a huge portion of human enterprise and an even larger portion of human imagination/philosophy/pop culture.
The aliens may barely notice us, but we'd never be the same.