urbandefault said:
In my everyday travels through life
With all due respect, and all sensitivity, T'girl:
The dividing line for the movie will skew greatly depending on your POV.
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Your everyday life isn't a movie. A movie is a presentation, things are deliberately on display for the audience to see and hear. While a sign wouldn't have to be hung around someone's neck, yes there would have to be a clear "sign."
For those whom a "gay character" issue is not a big deal, having the character's background kept subtle as in real life will be plenty enough for us to understand that, yes, the character is indeed gay. Yet, for those seeking to have gays fully represented in Trek, it is not enough.
It then becomes a political statement if they get the level of representation you want to be shown, although for those who desire that level of representation, it will be just a simple a "matter of fact" thing.
This is why I offered that, at some point in the movie, the character is seen in a social setting sitting hand in hand, or perhaps with one having their arm around the other...whether in the background, or even in the foreground as part of the dialogue portion of the scene. As long as it is not played off as "woo hoo, lookie at us! We're gay and lovin' it!" or some officer saying: "Wow! I never saw that coming!" This is just played off as a "matter of fact" situation that both those calling for subtlety and the ones demanding advocacy can both easily see: "Ok, now there's a gay character in Star Trek!"