If you've lost a parent or someone you're really close to, that episode hits the feels so hard.My unpopular opinion... The Visitor is very overrated. I've never really liked it, and watching it again for the first time in ages it still does nothing for me.
I know it's hugely popular. Hugely. So I know I'm the odd one out. I really tried with it again. But it does nothing for me. I tried to understand why... and for me it's lack of consequence.
- Melanie is a nobody, I don't care about her as a plot device and she goes and she is of no importance.
- Sure older Jake kills himself, but he will live and his father and live... there's no consequence of that.
- I know reset buttons are a big Trek plot device but on this one, it reset and that's that.
- And I know they re-use actors a lot but this is Tony Todd. This is Kurn. I never really bought into him being Jake. And there's often a closer feeling between the real Jake and Ben in a scene in their quarters.
- The future scenes with the crew didn't feel compelling - TNG did better episodes featuring the crew in the future and it felt just a plot device.
I lost my father to stomach cancer at 10-years-old. The line that had me sobbing the first time I watched the episode was:
SISKO: (reading Jake's dedication) To my father, who's coming home.
The entire concept of the episode, where a child gets a chance to save their parent and get a second chance to connect again, hits on the same angle as the Field of Dreams scene where father and son get to "have a catch" again.