Well, it's an opinion, as is yours. If you have some data to present, I'll see if I can maybe match it.
This feels a bit strawmannish. If you are assuming that I prefer a Star Trek where the main characters often yell and scream at each other, I should say that I do not. That's why I don't watch any of the irrational Kurtzman slop where everybody is always crying or angry, and subjective feelings rule the day. I never got past the first 20 minutes of Strange New Worlds because of the blatant insubordination that passed without comment or consequence.
I prefer the kind of Star Trek where characters can interact with each other like normal human beings in a professional team context. Sometimes that means differences of opinion and misunderstandings, especially in times of heightened stress or alien influence. Sometimes things get a little heated, and we say things we later regret. Then we reconcile and everything's great again. TOS was good at this. Bailey, Stiles, Stocker, Spock/McCoy. One of my favorites is Uhura/Kirk in The Naked Time. Stargate SG-1 was also good at this. TNG at first tried to be too utopian, then softened a bit in later years. The Jellico storyline was excellent. DS9 said "let's make this about real, imperfect people with a bit more to disagree about."
I don't live for the disagreements, but I do enjoy the resolutions.