I voted Elogium because it was awkward and gross. it wasn't an easy call because there was some good dialog about whether or not the crew should shack up. But kes' gross throwing herself about and tongue swelling and hand suction cups...too alien for me to deal with.
This.
Too alien? More alien than the Horta perhaps? C'mon she was all but human, except for her ears and her psionic abilities, that until the end, were not greatly overplayed, aside from which, we know humans can also possess as well. I think it was quite appropriate to see the real world differences that the mere description of female Ocampan's physiology might imply. None of the appearances of these features struck me in the slightest, as being off putting or offensive, just very interestingly instructive. In fact, the response that Lien so feelingly lent to the portrayal of Kes's coping with and processing these changes, I felt was quite poignant. But as it is so often said, YMMV (thinking about it, IMO, there's something ungainly or indistinct about that phrase

I can't have sex without suction cups now.
You mean you never have before?!!!!

That's the main reason why I'm not to fond of "Elogium".
They totally mess up the Ocampa. When I watched that episode the first time, I actually wondered if they were on something when they came up with that episode.
Sorry, Lynx, but as hinted to above, far from messing the conception of them up, it was as significant to their genuine alienness as understanding and appreciating their life span and its linkage or comparison to humans, if not quite a bit more so IMO, because the latter's a simple number game with nothing weird or untoward about it, if one only thinks about it seriously.
I quite like the fact that they at least made her very alien in that respect. Too many aliens are tediously human.
Hopefully, the new series will have an alien who shits out the back of his knees or has two conscious minds within one body or something.
Spot on!!!! Thank you very much sir!!!
