I agree with the review in one respect:
"Transformers: ROTF has mostly gotten pretty hideous reviews, but that's because people don't understand that this isn't a movie, in the conventional sense."
I think that's correct. More than a traditional movie, Revenge of the Fallen is a children's action figure game given big-screen life (for an older audience). I don't think that anything is necessarily wrong with that. It's certainly a different approach, but it's one that seemed very effective last year.
I do find the review's focus on male audience member interesting, given my sister's ebullience whenever she has the opportunity to discuss Revenge of the Fallen. (A web search suggests that the movie's audience was nearly half female, so she probably isn't alone.) I think the reviewer may have missed the point.