Wait a second, why in the hell would you buy a new Honda Accord... without a real job!??! And your fallback plan is now to buy a $14k used car?
The younger ones sometimes do things without thinking it through. I'm a more concerned about how he thought that he would immediately earn $45k per year right out of college, especially in this economy.
Wait'll he gets out on his own paying rent and all the other associated expenses that come with it.
Again, I have no *plan* to buy any car of any price...that was just my first find in my search. Read, people. Read.
And to answer the question as to why I expected to be making $45k...is because that's the average starting income for people with my degree, and was what I was told to ask for as salary by every career development adviser in my school.
How do you congratulate him on being responsible in a thread where he's trying to figure out how to get around an irresponsible decision, and proposing compounding it with another one? Is just WANTING to do better all that counts, not actually making the smart decision at the end?
No, I was congratulating him for at least
thinking about all of this. Most people would do what they "want."
Now, yes, he screwed up by getting more car than he actually needed without having income, but at least he's trying to find a way out. That's decent and responsible in this day and age. To
many posters here, that would be nothing special--many here
do tend to think first before making decisions. But many in the real world don't. And he's young--it's not as typical in his generation (no offense meant), they weren't raised to actually think about consequences staring them in the face but just bitch about the mess they got themselves in. He at least is trying to find a way out--but obviously needs advice. Late, but at least he's asking.
I appreciate that,
propita. I think its pretty clear here that I know I made some bad decisions in the past, and am simply trying to make the right ones now. At least I've been able to sift out the advice from what is otherwise a thread of unnecessary reminders that I was an idiot.
Here's what I plan to do: Keep my Honda, as it isn't going to get me a cent in trade-in, and they would at best have to absorb some of the cost of it and tack it onto a new car. I have the benefit of it being new, has a warranty and the free stuff I was able to get the dealer to throw in. Its a reliable car, I know what its been through down to every mile. I'm going to ramp up my job search within the field as well as start an aggressive marketing campaign for my freelance services. If I could pull even a couple of clients a month or more my worries would be for naught and I could actually put some of that money away.
My loans do have an option that will lower the payments now but consistently ramp them back up as time goes by...that may be an option I go with. Right now I'll just take the loans coming due as more motivation to get that well paying job in my field because once I have that, I'll be just fine.